Who possibly could be the father ??

[Tiiff_any]

Im so embarrassed writing this but my guilty conscience is getting the best of me and I just need others insight into this….I had my lmp May 24-27th. I had sex with my boyfriend June 6th and we broke up and I ended up have sex with my ex on June 8 &9 after I had sex with my ex I took a plan b to be on June 10th before  the 48hrs were up just to be safe.   I was with my ex for a year and all the times we slept together nonstop with him nutting in me I never became pregnant but I just felt wrong so I took the plan b just in case..After that I had been feeling a little bit tired and my boobs have been sensitive to touch so I did a at home pregnancy test on June 22nd and it came back positive. The next day I went to the doctor to confirm and  found out I am 4weeks and 2 day pregnant on June 23rd they said I had just conceived 2weeks and 2 days ago but I was too early to do a ultrasound and would have to come back in 3 weeks. So with all this being said am I pregnant with my boyfriend or ex baby.

[ppowb]

The 2 weeks 2 days was calculated using your LMP plus 14 days. It arrives at June 6th. If your cycles are a regular 28 days, the boyfriend is likely the lucky winner. The fact that the ex has never impregnated you reinforces that notion. Ask if he would take a sperm test to reinforce further.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, Tiff_any,

When you get your ultrasound, and I hope it is in two to three weeks and no later, write back with what they say from the ultrasound about when your due date is. It might not be possible to split the difference between June 6 and June 8, but if you had sex with your boyfriend before June 6 and got pregnant then, the ultrasound might provide a clue.

Also, if you haven't read them, there's a list of FAQ's and a schedule for trying to determine who the father is, at the top of this DNA/Paternity forum. I'll include the link below.

Do write back when you have your ultrasound.

[AnnieBrooke]

Here's the link. https://www.medhelp.org/posts/DNA-Paternity/FAQs-Who-is-my-babys-father/show/3035989

[AnnieBrooke]

Also, what kind of home pregnancy test did you take? Was it an "early results" test or just a regular one?

[Tiiff_any]

It was an early result but I took it a day after my period was late.

[Macki333]

When is your due date??

[Tiiff_any]

My due date is February 28,2024

[Tiiff_any]

They told me that over the phone but I haven’t went to get my first ultrasound yet

[Macki333]

Get an ultrasound as soon as you can, they say they are the most accurate for dating due dates and you can go based off that for conception date /: even tho your sexual intercourse dates are way too close to each other

[Tiiff_any]

Even if I took a plan b after having sex with my ex is there a possibility his the dad?

[Macki333]

Did you have sex with your boyfriend after taking the plan b?

[Tiiff_any]

I had sex with my boyfriend on June 6th. Then I had sex with my ex on June 8&9th and on the 10th I took a plan b.

[Macki333]

Then idk girl, sorry, they say sperm can last 3 days inside of you, the dates are too close, if the plan b would’ve worked you wouldn’t be pregnant at all, you were probably pregnant already when you were with your ex or you ovulated when you were with your ex, I know how you feel and it’s hard to be at peace, do they know any of this??

[ppowb]

Your due date suggests you ovulated Jun 4th. Since the egg is only good for 24 hours, in theory the June 6th encounter has a better chance.

[AnnieBrooke]

Yes, the story does suggest (to some extent) that she may have gotten pregnant by the first guy and been a couple of days pregnant when she had sex with the second guy, but since she was given a due date when the embryo would not be visible on the ultrasound yet, and in fact the doctor just gave her the 4th week count based on the first day of her last period, it will help a lot when she gets the ultrasound, in her 6th or 7th week. Knowing when a period came doesn't guarantee when ovulation happened, except for those lucky few whose periods come every 28 days like clockwork, year in and year out.

[Tiiff_any]

When I went on Friday June 23rd to confirm my pregnancy they suggested that I had just conceived 2weeks and 2 days prior that gave me the day June 7th.  Of course it was too early to do an ultrasound but my cycles are 29 days.