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I need your help in determining what is the problem here... Is it me or is it him? Just started dating again after my last relationship - that was 2 1/2 yrs ago. I'm not into casual relationship; therefore, I don't get into casual sexual relationship. I've met this younger man... we had instant click and great chemisty. We finally took it to the next level and had sex...my problem is that, he doesn't seem to be able to maintain his erection during the sexual intercourse.... Is the problem with me or is it him? I've been told that I'm sexy and beautiful and sensual... since I don't get into casual sex... thought maybe I don't have the expertise or ... um just don't know the "how tos" ? It is affecting my self confidence/self esteem... and is making me self conscious. I'm 51 yrs old , 5'1" and 110 lbs... and considered very attractive, as I don't look my age. I'm dating a 40 yr old... since we only did it once, I don't want to embarrass him or me... so I didn't say anything... I truly don't know who to approach it. Please help....
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He may have some medical issues like heart problems or diabetes or he is watching porn that he experiencing porn induced erectile dysfunction. Ask him about it.
It's not you... just don't make him feel bad about it. Guys can have temporary erection problems for all sorts of reasons. If it was just that one time, he could have easily been anxious about pleasing you the first time.
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