exposure and test time

[dummyone]

I am a 40 year old married male, 7 weeks ago I was drunk and fooled around with a married female (not my wife).  We kissed and she gave me a ******** with NO CONDOM.  I tested 50 days hiv negative, however I currently have a slight sore throat and have a cold.  I am obviously very scared and have a tremendous amount of anxiety.  Is my 50 day hiv test conclusive?  Do I need more testing? Is this a REAL risk.  Please help.  Any information is appreciated.

[LIZZIE LOU]

if you continue to read about hiv on the internet...you will NEVER be able to move on.  the symptoms of early infection are very similiar to hundreds of other things...and pretty soon your mind will convince your body that it is sick.

there has never been a documented case of a man contracting hiv from receiving a ********.  believe me...YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BE THE FIRST IN HISTORY!!!!!

deal with the guilt...it's NOT hiv.

[dummyone]

thank you for you response.  I am very depressed and very worried.  You words do help AND  I hope i can move on from this.

[LIZZIE LOU]

receiving oral sex is NO RISK.

[dummyone]

you are right and i did get tested for stds.  I am very worried about hiv and do not want to pass onto my wife....so no more testing and I am ok!

[happydaze]

You should know that while you did not have an HIV risk, oral sex does present a risk for other STDs.  Since you are married, you should know that acquiring sn STD from oral sex with someone else, you can then pass that to your wife.  Might be hard to explain to wifey how she managed to get gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes or even syphilis when you are the only person she is having sex with.

[luison]

You were at no risk. No more testing is needed.

[dummyone]

my exposure was receiving unprotected oral sex.