Burst Condom

[jenny_p]

Hiya.  Hope someone can help.

A few days ago I had casual sex (vaginal) with a guy for the first time.  He came, and to my horror, I realised that the teat of the condom had burst off, and was left inside me with his semen.  We didn't discuss it - I guess I was too embarrassed, and he went off to the toilet.  I know this guy lived in South Africa for many years.  I know I shouldn't judge on the basis of this, as it may be irrelevant but nonetheless, I am petrified.  I know I definitely need testing and a blood test is the only way to know for sure, but when would be the best time to get this test done?? I've heard 6 weeks after the incident?  I'm so scared and don't have anyone to talk to about this. I've only ever had one HIV test in my life which ironically was one month ago and I tested negative then.  Can't believe it.

Many thanks in advance.

  

[Teak]

3 months will be conclusive.

[joggen]

S. Africa obviously has a higher incidence of infection. However, if he came to the US as an immigrant, I suspect that he would have taken an HIV test. Also, prevalence differs according to ethnic background there as well. I would not be as concerned if your partner were white.

Can you contact your partner and ask his HIV status...that would be very reassuring.

As Vance said, a test 6-8 weeks after exposure will be a good indication of your status and highly unlikely to change.

[Vance2335]

3 months is conclusive. 6-8 weeks gives a good indication.