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I am a 36 year old, uncircumcised male with a current clean STD panel. About a week ago I was at a strip club and was very drunk. I went with a stripper to the back room for a sexual encounter. She pulled my pants down and put a condom on me and we tried to have sex but I was too drunk for it to work. I, stupidly, took the condom off and ask her to have sex then which she refused. I tried to put the condom back on and she still refused to have sex. She then stood over me and squirted a few times on my legs, hands and exposed penis. After that it was just her masturbating me while occasionally spitting on my penis and my masturbating myself. I know that no vigorous sex was had and I am about 98% sure that there was no penetration (I was very drunk so that’s the additional 2% but I feel like that’s something I would remember). I text the lady the next day and she said that everything was safe and that she was clean but didn’t provide any proof. I typically am a logical person but I’ve always had a fear of HIV and don’t do things like this at all so I’m having a lot of anxiety around this situation. What would be the risk here for this situation? Thank you in advance for any help.
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The risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse or share IV needles to inject drugs. Saliva and air inactivate the virus. So, all of your activity is no risk. Anxiety can make you question all sorts of things and makes us illogical. focus o what the risks are and that you didn't have one.
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