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Need help with short and long-term risk assessment
OI'm a 42 year old hetero male married and in good health.
I get legitimate massages once in 1-2 months where I don't even undress completely and keep my underwear on.
Recently a female masseuse started licking my chest/nipple but stupidly I did not withdraw.
The licking turned into sucking my fingers (I still stupidly didnt stop) and finally she gave me an unprotected oral sex and I came. The oral sex must have lasted 30 secs at the most.
I tested negative for gonorrhea and chlymidia at 4 days and I have no symptoms at 3 weeks.
Is there any other testing reqd?
I read that insertive oral sex is absolutely not a risk for HIV but when she licked my fingers, I had small cuts (not bleeding).
Now my question is should I get tested for HIV for this massage and the 6-7 other legitimate (non sexual) massages that I have received in the last year.
Thank you soon much for your expert help!!
I get legitimate massages once in 1-2 months where I don't even undress completely and keep my underwear on.
Recently a female masseuse started licking my chest/nipple but stupidly I did not withdraw.
The licking turned into sucking my fingers (I still stupidly didnt stop) and finally she gave me an unprotected oral sex and I came. The oral sex must have lasted 30 secs at the most.
I tested negative for gonorrhea and chlymidia at 4 days and I have no symptoms at 3 weeks.
Is there any other testing reqd?
I read that insertive oral sex is absolutely not a risk for HIV but when she licked my fingers, I had small cuts (not bleeding).
Now my question is should I get tested for HIV for this massage and the 6-7 other legitimate (non sexual) massages that I have received in the last year.
Thank you soon much for your expert help!!
Thank you Teak. My wife and I have been trying for a baby for about a year (I was tested a year back and all were negative) and Im thinking we will continue to try for a baby without further testing. I hope your opinion/advice does not change given the above.
I have had a headache too which feels like a sinus headache.
Should I be concerned with
1. The 30 second oral sex I received and came in mouth?
2. The fact that the masseuse licked my fingers which had small, non-bleeding cuts.
Appreciate your response very much.
Thank you
Should I be concerned with
1. The 30 second oral sex I received and came in mouth?
2. The fact that the masseuse licked my fingers which had small, non-bleeding cuts.
Appreciate your response very much.
Thank you
Thank you Vance, I get your message.
In particular
I'm worried about licking and sucking of my fingers (which had minor, non-bleeding cuts at the time)
I'm also worried about the oral sex I received and the fact that I came in her mouth.
Appreciate your patience in addressing the above 2 concerns.
Thanks again
In particular
I'm worried about licking and sucking of my fingers (which had minor, non-bleeding cuts at the time)
I'm also worried about the oral sex I received and the fact that I came in her mouth.
Appreciate your patience in addressing the above 2 concerns.
Thanks again
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