Teak, I got myself tested today and the result was negative.. You were right that i dint have an exposure but fear and anxiety makes your mind go to another place... Just want to congratulate you with your great work! god bless you!
Seek a therapist to help you with anxiety
I went to see the doctor and he checked me and mentioned that i was at very low risk... He checked my sore throat and prescribed 3 day course of zitromax (azitromycin).
Quote his exact words - "I personally think that you have zero chance of contracting HIV from your encounter. I think you need a HIV test for peace of mind. You are obviously very worried and I do not think any amount of reassurance will get rid of your fears. In fact, my worry for you is the other way round i.e. you will continue to worry about HIV even after being tested negative. Anxiety is a very bad thing. What I think you should do is to wait till 28 days then get the combo test. I hope that will finally put all your worries to rest."
Thank you for your advise Teak - but anxiety is very hard to control.. I have spent the last few days only reading about HIV and hardly if anything to eat and feel cold when the temperature is 34 degrees
That is not a problem of this forum, you did not have an exposure.
i dont mean to offend you but fear and doubt is the only reason im concerned... I understand that i may not have put myself at risk but the symptoms are driving me crazy. I appreciate your guidance!
doctor has recommended testing.. you think its because of a risk or to ease my anxiety??
Move along. You don't have an HIV concern.
Today my skin all over my body has tunred red and i have a strange burning irritation on the body.. Please advice is this a sign of ARS.. How would you define ARD symptoms?? I am also feverish...
If you have STD questions you need to post them in the STD forum. You do not have an HIV concern.
do i need tests for other stds??
Thanks Teak... I shall go with your assessment as of what iv read my risk is zero or close to zero.. I however do not want to put my partner at risk if i was at risk.. Thus i wanted a second opinion.. I know it sounds foolish that when there are no documented cases can i be the first but fear and anxiety drive u to think of the what ifs... Would anybody have another opinion...
Teak your responses are much appreciated and carry on the good work.. cheers!!
You never had an exposure.
so you think its fine for me to continue unprotected sex with my partner or should i wait 3 months for testing?
So you reccommend my symptoms are due to fear and anxiety? I have just got an HIV test done last Feb which was negative (NR).. This is my only act post that...
Nothing that you have done put you at risk of contracting HIV.
I forgot to mention that i also fingered one of them slightly for a few seconds and she was quite wet and there were no cuts of scratches that i noticed on my hand... Do not remember seeing blood wht so ever during the entire act!