So here it goes:
In August I had a tantric massage. As part of the massage , the masseuse was naked and she did use her body on my back. There was a moment when I felt her pubic hair against my buttocks. From what I recall that was the only time when her genitals touch me. There was a hand job invovled at the end as well. After about 4 days, I started to feel fatigued with a stiff neck and some groin and lower back pain as well. Then I noticed some rash on my buttock around where the two cheeks meet. It was red with slightly itchiness. There were no blisters. Just slight redness. These symptoms lasted for about 2 weeks. Then just recently in the beginning of October I started to feel tired again with similar symptoms of neck pain, groin pain and Lowe back pain. I also feel random itch on my anus and random skin pinching feeling on my buttocks , thighs and some time back. I'm really concerned if this is herpes and would appreciate any feedback.