Herpes 2 and Eczema and Body Fluids

[thedave3000]

Trying times for me and my partner.  

First year of her outbreak, she has HSV-2.  I don't.  I am a male with no history of STDs.  Stressful week for her, she had little sleep.  No apparent current outbreak.  I used a sex toy on her vagina, she ejaculates (she squirts constantly).  Then she gave me a hand job.  I ejacutalted.  

I am concerned, with all the body fluid going around on the bed and on our hands.  I've had eczema on my finger tips for the last year.  Currently, a small crack on one finger.  I am now worried I am infected with HSV-2.  Just in my mind, no symptoms.  

I really like this girl.  I have no experience being with someone who you can't have actual sex with.  Just trying to take things slow in the beginning. But I am scared.          

[thedave3000]

Thanks.  This is so stressful.  It's a miracle that I've lived my whole life STD-free, and, now, meet this fantastic woman.  Not sure why she's into me.  Most women treat me like I have an STD, or that I must have an STD.  I don't sleep around.  I am trying to read-up on all this as much as I can.  I want to be with her.  I can't have sex with her.  It's totally messed up.  

[Life360_Dave]

Even with shedding there needs to be body to body contact, genital to genital or oral to oral not fingers, that what im saying.

[thedave3000]

Thanks.  Trying to replay all the events.  If she had her vaginal fluid on her hand, any of her vaginal fluid, and it came in contact with the tip of my penis as she was stroking, at any point, am I at risk?  

Also, you're saying, if she is shedding the viral infection, and I get her vaginal juices seeped into a cut on my hand, that does not count as a transmission.  That's what you're saying?  

I am so paranoid now.  

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, herpes is contracted but direct contact body to body not squirting fluids. There also needs to be some rubbing and grinding to pass it.

[thedave3000]

Sorry.  Wrong forum.  

[thedave3000]

Thank you for responding.  

Although I have a HSV-2 concern, as stated, not a HIV concern.  There was bodily fluids on our hands.  And I have eczema on my fingertips.  She may have been symptomatic.    

[Teak]

Not an HIV concern.