Hello,
About 4 days ago I had a sexual encounter with a woman. We had unprotected oral sex (both ways) and afterwards had protected vaginal sex. Only today did I find out that she gets cold sores and had a cold sore on her nose a couple months ago. She did not have any visible sores at the time when we had sex, and she told me that it had been a while since she had one. I know it might be all in my head, but I am so worried about getting genital herpes from our encounter. I have heard that the incubation period takes anywhere from 2-20 days, after this period do you think I will be safe? I have no had any symptoms so far, but what should I expect if I would? I dont know if I should go get tested or what I should do. Please help me, I am really worried.