Three days after my boyfriend performed oral sex on me, (I'm a woman), I developed diffuse vaginal redness, and some very minor itching/irritation. I noticed a white spot right smack in the center of my clitoris a day after this started, and it's sort of painful, but I wouldn't notice it unless I poked at it. I also noticed that my vulva was sort of "peeling skin" and little tiny pinprick size vesicles appeared in a few places. They were all isolated and not in clusters. I immediately went in to see my doctor, and she said that she saw the redness, but highly doubted it was herpes, but took a culture anyway. She also gave me a vaginal exam, and took a sample and said that she saw some yeast, so she gave me diflucan and sent me on my way.
Here is were my head explodes: 3 weeks ago, I had my boyfriend take a Herpeselect test. It was conducted well within the appropriate time range (5 months after he last even kissed anyone). He has never had a cold sore, and the Herpeselect showed that he was negative for both HSV1 and HSV2. I saw the antibody titers myself from the lab printout, and they were definitely negative (both were under 0.18). I was 100% HSV1 and 2 negative prior to this incident (had a western blot, many herpeselect tests that were all negative in the past just because I'm in the field of health care and know about gG deficient strains, so I'm overly paranoid and that's why I got the WB).
Now I have to sit and wait in fear. I know that the herpeselect can miss 1/10 people, but couple that with the fact that he's never had any symptoms, and certainly didn't have any when he was with me, how likely is it that what I have going on is herpes? What else could it be?