Aa
he kicked me outta car
threw my purse out. and now i AM locked outta house. what a nice husband. anyways what are you ladies doing?
lol, wth... why did he do that!!?? if you two argued , does he not know that woman are always right!!..lol jk... im relaxing enjoying this hot winter weather....yes hot...lol.. and im moody being 3 days late, ugh... hope you have a good day!...or i shall say better day.. :-)
Sorry....just go tangry there. He really shouldn't treat you like that when you are so preggo. Where are you located? Hopefully not somewhere that is cold!
because we went tire pricing. and the tires he wants look exactly like every single tire well he got mad when i was like explain the difference. and we left store and he started rambling on about how i AM not fun to look at tires with because i don't know anything. well he decided to kick me out and throw my purse out the window and throw key.S now i can't find them. why are you going to kick johns head in
oh boy. What kind of husband treats his pregnant wife this way???
I think you should call the cops. You deserve so much better.
I conpletely understand love & having a baby's daddy. I have been there before, but trust me... There are decent men out there who will love you so much. Don't put up with this crap.
How much more of this do you think you & the two inside you can handle before the emotional toll affects one of you in a serious matter? Please. do something for yourself. If he is like this now, it is going to get worse later. Wonder how he would treat a non pregnant wife? Think about it.
I think you should call the cops. You deserve so much better.
I conpletely understand love & having a baby's daddy. I have been there before, but trust me... There are decent men out there who will love you so much. Don't put up with this crap.
How much more of this do you think you & the two inside you can handle before the emotional toll affects one of you in a serious matter? Please. do something for yourself. If he is like this now, it is going to get worse later. Wonder how he would treat a non pregnant wife? Think about it.
No real man kicks his wife, let alone his pregnant wife, out of the car then locks her out of the house. Remember sometimes it's best for everyone if the man isn't involved. Not all men can cut it as husbands and fathers.
Because he is a man and MEN = DOUCHE!
Basically, John (OH) and I NEVER see eachother, we used to have Sundays as our day we spent together, and well, for the past 6 weeks he has worked and I haven't been out my house and im getting rather down and depressed, Well he got tickets to my fav commedian and well, now I cant go because guess what... HE IS FREAKING WORKING, and says I can go with his brother... well I wanna go with my BOYFRIEND, not his brother, so I aint going now, everytime I say can we do this he says im working you can go with Andy (His brother) Andy will take you, I swear the birth of our child he will turn around and say im working Andy will be there, He doesnt like me and his brother together anyways (cause he is stupid) but if he pushes me and his brother any closer together I'll be sitting on his lap!!.:(
and they are just tyres!! JEeeze they are all the freaking same!!! LOL... none of them make the car fly or transform if they did that then i'll go tyre shopping haha. The only thing I know is if they have no tread then they are illegal (In England anyways).
what is it with men these days!! A decent man is like a dinosuar.. EXTINCT!
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Basically, John (OH) and I NEVER see eachother, we used to have Sundays as our day we spent together, and well, for the past 6 weeks he has worked and I haven't been out my house and im getting rather down and depressed, Well he got tickets to my fav commedian and well, now I cant go because guess what... HE IS FREAKING WORKING, and says I can go with his brother... well I wanna go with my BOYFRIEND, not his brother, so I aint going now, everytime I say can we do this he says im working you can go with Andy (His brother) Andy will take you, I swear the birth of our child he will turn around and say im working Andy will be there, He doesnt like me and his brother together anyways (cause he is stupid) but if he pushes me and his brother any closer together I'll be sitting on his lap!!.:(
and they are just tyres!! JEeeze they are all the freaking same!!! LOL... none of them make the car fly or transform if they did that then i'll go tyre shopping haha. The only thing I know is if they have no tread then they are illegal (In England anyways).
what is it with men these days!! A decent man is like a dinosuar.. EXTINCT!
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Apparently I'm a man, no tires are NOT the same which is why if you look at the tread they are different. Depending upon season climate type if car and so on you need different tires. But truly that's not the point. The point is that is not any way to treat a person!
Lol. you are so hilarious. you put a smile on my face. i AM glad i AM not the only one having men problems. everyone keeps makin excuses for him saying he is scared. but enough is enough. i do not think there is any excuse. besides him just being a tw@t. it is so frustrating he blames everything on me
Fair enough John is working, but seriously, if its something HE wanted to do, he will take all the time in the world off work... but noooo something I wanna do.. jeeeeze its pretty much illegal he cant take time off work!!!
I would say smack him one, but I got told off last time...
Just give him what for haha!
call him a Douche!! LOL.. OR, an Analdwellingbuttmonkey (Im watching Bruce Almighty and its the part where the Monkey comes out the guyys bum!)
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I would say smack him one, but I got told off last time...
Just give him what for haha!
call him a Douche!! LOL.. OR, an Analdwellingbuttmonkey (Im watching Bruce Almighty and its the part where the Monkey comes out the guyys bum!)
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never said they were same i wanted to know difference between six hundred dollars and the thousand dollar tires he wanted sorry but i rather spend five thousand dollars on something else other than some tire.
i just wanna shake him and get the old him back. or at least the old him i thought he was. this is for the birds. i wish i had one of those dreamy amazing relationships sigh. but oh well. reality is reality
is this just a lately thing? Could he have some sort of drug or pshcholigical problem?
I don't mean to disrespect by asking... Those things can happen to anyone.
I don't mean to disrespect by asking... Those things can happen to anyone.
WOAH thats soooo much money for tyres!! I know they aint the same, but when you really dont care, they are the same!! LOL...
There is like Alloy tyres and normal ones and stuff! Yeah. But I wasnt calling you a man Sun_Worshiper... PROMISE :)...
The tread is like different, and yeah? I have NO CLUE! because I dont listen, because im never gonna need to use it in my life haha!
I wanna feel like im in a relationship! But thats never gonna happen! EVER!
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There is like Alloy tyres and normal ones and stuff! Yeah. But I wasnt calling you a man Sun_Worshiper... PROMISE :)...
The tread is like different, and yeah? I have NO CLUE! because I dont listen, because im never gonna need to use it in my life haha!
I wanna feel like im in a relationship! But thats never gonna happen! EVER!
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Lol. no drugs. in military. maybe stress and scared and just dumb and wants to be what he isn't. not offended at all.
Yeah a question like that is no reason to kick u out of the car. I asked dh the other day if he found out what is wrong with our only car (it only goes in reverse) and he said "yeah, the linkage needs to be replaced." Ok, well how much does that cost? He says "between $2 and $6000."
What?! Is that really an answer? I said "ok, fix it tomorrow then." And that was it. Tomorrow comes around and I tell him to stop at the auto store to get the part and he says they don't sell it - he needs to get on ebay or craigs list and find someone that is tearing apart that specific transmission. Uhm, isn't that important information you should have shared earlier? Now it's been 3 days and he hasn't started looking. Hello! We need a working car!
What?! Is that really an answer? I said "ok, fix it tomorrow then." And that was it. Tomorrow comes around and I tell him to stop at the auto store to get the part and he says they don't sell it - he needs to get on ebay or craigs list and find someone that is tearing apart that specific transmission. Uhm, isn't that important information you should have shared earlier? Now it's been 3 days and he hasn't started looking. Hello! We need a working car!
If he gets this frustrated explaining tires to his pregnant wife and then treats her with so much disrespect, how do you think he is going to respond to the toddler who calls "daddy" or whines for the thousandth time that day. How will he respond to never-ending "why" questions? Or as a newborn, will he have the patience to spend hours soothing a colicky baby?
I find it sad that so many women come on here and post horrible stories like this, thinking that better doesn't exist. It does, but you will not find it when trapped in an abusive relationship. (Yes, I do think that treatment like what you described either borders on abuse or indicates the potential for abuse, if it has not occurred already.) I know nothing about you, but do know that you absolutely deserve better than this. You are going to be someone's momma! You are taking on the greatest challenge in life and deserve respect!
I know you girls share similar stories and LOL to make each other feel better, but that "support" is minimizing a problem that needs to be addressed and trivializing the reality of the situation. You call them "douches" as if to justify their actions and to say "what more can you expect from a douche?" You can and SHOULD expect more.
Good luck and I hope you find the treatment you deserve.
And about the tires... a man should feel fortunate that you actually take an interest in these things. Good for you for trying to learn something before making an investment.
I find it sad that so many women come on here and post horrible stories like this, thinking that better doesn't exist. It does, but you will not find it when trapped in an abusive relationship. (Yes, I do think that treatment like what you described either borders on abuse or indicates the potential for abuse, if it has not occurred already.) I know nothing about you, but do know that you absolutely deserve better than this. You are going to be someone's momma! You are taking on the greatest challenge in life and deserve respect!
I know you girls share similar stories and LOL to make each other feel better, but that "support" is minimizing a problem that needs to be addressed and trivializing the reality of the situation. You call them "douches" as if to justify their actions and to say "what more can you expect from a douche?" You can and SHOULD expect more.
Good luck and I hope you find the treatment you deserve.
And about the tires... a man should feel fortunate that you actually take an interest in these things. Good for you for trying to learn something before making an investment.
well said!
I read so many stories on here of the lady being badly treated. You girls deserve respect. I'm not saying the woman is always right, but the argument should be fair.
I read so many stories on here of the lady being badly treated. You girls deserve respect. I'm not saying the woman is always right, but the argument should be fair.
Best answer, hands down.
I find no amusement in this, or any reason to shrug it off as something that should just be accepted and expected of men, or "douches."
I find no amusement in this, or any reason to shrug it off as something that should just be accepted and expected of men, or "douches."
I absolutely meant no offense to anyone here.... I'm sorry for sometimes telling you all what you should do in a relationship. I just want you ladies to be happy.
exactly. I sometimes can't respond to some of the "my husband did this" or "my boyfriend did that" posts because I just want to say 'what are you still doing letting him hurt you like that?!?!?" ....EVERY woman on here deserves better. my husband has done some really rude, disrespectful and borderline abusive things before (he's going to a therapist now)....but i DON'T find them funny and you can bet that if he crossed a line (kicking me, pregnant, out of the car and locking me out of the house would be over the line) he'd be out of my life in a moment. i love him, but i love myself and my babies too.
It's fine to come on here and vent and even laugh about it if things aren't too bad...but it's time to get real sweetie, you really need to take this seriously and consider that the future could..and probably will...get worse. you deserve better. your baby deserves better. end of story in my mind....it may be hard to leave but can you honestly live with yourself if your significant other begins treating your baby in such a rude, abusive way?
it's been mentioned on here before...and it's true...abuse very often gets worse or starts for the first time during pregnancy...and once abusive habits start, without help and intervention (professional) they WON'T get better.
if you decide to keep him in your life...I would strongly strongly advise couples therapy. it can work, but he needs to get real and make an effort to be a real man.
It's fine to come on here and vent and even laugh about it if things aren't too bad...but it's time to get real sweetie, you really need to take this seriously and consider that the future could..and probably will...get worse. you deserve better. your baby deserves better. end of story in my mind....it may be hard to leave but can you honestly live with yourself if your significant other begins treating your baby in such a rude, abusive way?
it's been mentioned on here before...and it's true...abuse very often gets worse or starts for the first time during pregnancy...and once abusive habits start, without help and intervention (professional) they WON'T get better.
if you decide to keep him in your life...I would strongly strongly advise couples therapy. it can work, but he needs to get real and make an effort to be a real man.
Yes, this is in no way funny. The first thing I thought when I read this post is, "I hope she is packing her stuff!." He kicked you out of a car. I'm sure that is just one of many incidents. Protect yourself and your child. Not ALL men are like this...so don't except this kind of behavior because you think it is 'normal'. Because it isn't.
Totally agree w/ tired and many others that agreed w/ tired....this treatment of you is wrong. It can be so hard to believe that there are any good men left out there. But there are!!!
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