Law?

[lexseababymomma]

Wondering if anyone here knows anything about the law...? I'm tired of my baby daddy just being high all the time and selling it and growing it etc. what can I do about this? I'm sick of it. I definitely don't want my daughter to have a father like that.

[ADYNASTY]

oh honey you answered your own question right there ^

[lexseababymomma]

I wish this thing let us post screenshots lol. I've tried. Believe me. I have. Nothing does it. Don't get me wrong. I've done weed and cocaine myself so I insist it's his behavior on these things that keep him from being coherent or rational. Weed used to relax me not make me stupid. But this guy just smokes like a chimney. And he's an alcoholic. Went to AA meeting back in 2005 and 2010 and they clearly didnt work. He has money for his drugs and party and girls but not to buy me anything for the baby.

[ADYNASTY]

Girl im a crybaby too! cry in the morning, cry in the evening. ive just seen and been through some mess myself and refuse to let it put me back at the bottom. I promise you'll get that urge. every woman does! I got faith in you! hell if you need to cry, cry!lol he is the father of your child so it is understandable. but both of you will come to a realization that its not about you anymore. but the hell with him! if your tired and fed up and exhausted because you leaning on false hope. please believe you'll get up the drive to say, "this is it!"

[mayraaorozcoo]

Omg I didn't know there was cocaine involved. I wouldnt bring my child around that it's not a safe environment with the coke or him growing weed. Do what you have to do for you and that baby. When I found out my bd was doing coke under the same roof me and his daughter were living in I told him I wouldn't allow it and wouldn't stay there , after doing it for a whole day while I was gone he agreed and he said sorry and I emptied all the coke in the bathroom . I think letting him know and showing him that you won't put up with it specially around your daughter he might change. I hope this helps and good luck

[lexseababymomma]

You know, I've tried. It seems much easier said than done. I'm so glad you're support system is your husband. I wish he could just straighten out. And I can acknowledge everything and agree that you're right. But I'm not as strong as you are. I tend to cry for him alot. And things just don't get easier

[ADYNASTY]

You can't make a man want to do anything. Just look at all that and use it as a reminder in saying. Either you stop now or stay out my way. You don't want to deal with when the baby is here. And you don't need to deal with it now. because its stressing you. Turn to family, close friends. The more you do the stronger you become. You remind me of my sister. She went through the same thing. You just got to keep your head up and remember that little one is your motivation