Law?

[lexseababymomma]

Wondering if anyone here knows anything about the law...? I'm tired of my baby daddy just being high all the time and selling it and growing it etc. what can I do about this? I'm sick of it. I definitely don't want my daughter to have a father like that.

[lexseababymomma]

Thanks ladies! I repeat we don't live together- none of that stuff is inside MY house. It's all inside HIS. My buddy called me this morning and said he's off to work but if I do decide on it that he'll personally help me. I have already begged this man to be there for his daughter. But all he does is party and smoke and drink his life away. I know they're his decisions and I've never judged them. But it's become a problem for me when I can't get him to understand that his daughter comes first. When it interferes with things like that then yes. It's an issue for me. So I'm still stuck in the middle cause some responses are no don't do it wait and some are do it.

[kd1227]

I agree with adynasty ....you dont love with him and yes you care but you are about to be a mother your responsible for a new life an at least you have the sense to know it....Its hard but walk away.   I did with my 2 nd son his dad didnt use but sold and that lifestyle I didnt want my baby in...he even got shot 3days before I went into labor and had already cut ties with him but took my son up to see him after birth ...we was in same hospital...do you think he changed no!!!! Some Men are like that and its sad for thé child but you as mom have to be there to provide love and care..weather dad there or not...way I see it when a female get pregant prepare yourself to do the most great if dad is there way it should be but I don't force them the greatest hurt in the World is when that child gets grown and knows that dad wasnt there and why...and when they go to speak to them and tell them how is felt for them not being there and choice they made over them ...the dad has or ahouldve grown by then and it Hits hard.  My son is ten now and hasnt sean his dad in 6 yrs he ask bout him and talk on phone to him once in a while but when dad Asks do you want to come over he says no maybe another time and he gets mad cuz he thinks its me but my son no dummie and I dont speak bad bout him around him either...I pick up that extra slack and love and give to him in knowing I took him from an atmosphere that could have been bad and unhealty...and that shooting left him in a wheel chair he also smokes feed all day...their judgement is not good when they in this state of mind...leave him be and what life has planed for him will be...good luck and I hope dada eyes open sooner then later and he wakes up.

[XxKitaraxX]

Yeah she needs to do what is right for her baby, I know there's no way I'd allow my infant around anything drug related, but I guess there's people that would. I'm just saying its my opinion that no child should be subjected to that.

[Angellovely]

Just to give u heads up. Its a simular situation that I've went through. If there is weed or cocaine found in your house while ur baby is there, living in that kind of enviroment . CPS can take ur child away no ifs or buts. Not only that you and and everyone else in the same house hold will get in trouble. I only say this because I've been there and its not a pretty road. And it wasnt me it was sisters baby that they were going to take away although she wasnt the one selling or smoking. Only u know what's best for u and the child. And that is the law of Nevada.

[ADYNASTY]

ohkay kitara this isn't abt you or me. focus boo.

[ADYNASTY]

honey just sleep on it. talk to him, let him know whats about to go down! nobody understands your situation but you. I say eliminate urself. stop being so stressed and a cop wont interfere with you unless you allow him to do the activity in your home. everybody knows a little something about illegal activity. rest on it, talk to your friend in again and your baby daddy!