Law?

[lexseababymomma]

Wondering if anyone here knows anything about the law...? I'm tired of my baby daddy just being high all the time and selling it and growing it etc. what can I do about this? I'm sick of it. I definitely don't want my daughter to have a father like that.

[lexseababymomma]

I didn't meet him this way. I met him while he was still serving. I didn't know his weed problem was this bad because again the service has a no drug policy. When he got kicked out. I was baffled and upset but supportive. When he didn't change and use that as motivation to get on with a better life. He went downhill too many times I suggested professional help and he said I was crazy, etc. when I left him was when I found out I was pregnant. I was on birth control. This isn't the man I would've chosen at all. I'm not upset because he isn't the man I "love" I stopped being in love when he was unfaithful to me and a compulsive liar. He insisted we stay together and I refused. There is no emotional ties here. I just want my daughter to know she has a father and i want him to feel equally responsible financially and emotionally for her- but not if he's gonna be a bad role model for her.

[precious_jewel1913]

U met him,that way? Thats bcuse u accepted him,with all the marijuana involved.now u having a child things get clearer,well let him,know how u feel nd let him kno that if he continues his habits u are not gonna accept him in ur life anymore...is the habits really,wats bothering u abt him,or do u jst feel he is nt the man u love.? Look more within ur feelings goodluck with ur precious bby

[proudmommy120612]

Hopefully he will man up once the baby is here so you don't have to go through any of that

[lexseababymomma]

That's the sad part. He'd probably pass the drug test. He has ways... He got away with it for 10 years in the marines.

[proudmommy120612]

I would say so I would hate for you to lose the baby like my friend did  I doubt you would have problems with him trying to get custody he probably want even stay sober enough to go to court and go through drug testing to prove he can be a fit parent

[lexseababymomma]

Thank you proud mommy. That is very very helpful. So wait this out and child support it is. :)