Law?

[lexseababymomma]

Wondering if anyone here knows anything about the law...? I'm tired of my baby daddy just being high all the time and selling it and growing it etc. what can I do about this? I'm sick of it. I definitely don't want my daughter to have a father like that.

[baby2014]

If you don't turn him in I wouldn't let my child go to his house because when he does get busted you don't want to be there or your daughter. Your daughter would wind up in temporary Foster care and if your there you both will go to jail. Because you are there. And you could be charged for not turning him in. Stay away from drugs it doesn't matter if it's hardcore or not it's still illegal and you can get in big trouble.

[CareyMc]

I think if he's not going to be on the birth certificate and you're not with him...you should just let it be. The law will eventually catch up to him. In my opinion, I feel as if you still care about him...well at least his wellbeing, and that's why you haven't called. Plus would you want that on your conscience if you sent him to jail and something happened to him in there? I understand it's not right that he does that...but you don't have to be around him. If all he cares about is drugs then I doubt he will bother trying to fight for his child...especially since he's not doing anything now. Just keep her from him. Who knows he may actually shape up and get his life on track and actually want to be a good father. If you truly believe in your heart that he can't change...don't worry about it. Good luck!

[lexseababymomma]

Finally something with some sense! Thank you. That was a very clear answer, kmama2011 you're right. I will do it.

[kmama2011]

I dont agree with anyone saying ” its just weed” my friends babys dad was selling and he got his place broke into his son saw him get shot and beat up bcuz people he sold to robbed them of their cash and weed. Regardless of the drug it is still not the right enviornment for children. And just bcuz he doesnt get custody doesnt mean he wont get visitation. If you hit him with child support expect him to come back with wanting visitation. The judge may see it your way and not allow him to take the baby for visits but then again he might say well why all the sudden is he not suitable when he was doing all this before and you did nothing about it. Be ready for a judge to question your motive for all the sudden making it an issue when the child is born. Its not about snitching you have to start setting up a case now not when he fights or else you may not have a leg to stand on. Please consider what im saying ive been through this before I know how judges can be on stuff like this. They think the mom is just saying stuff to make the dad not be able to get visitation bcuz it never became an issue until breaking up and the baby was born. You need documented evidence not word of mouth

[lexseababymomma]

Blicious19: But the question I've been asking this entire time is do something about it NOW like maybe pick up a report that he traffics it? or wait until he fights for custody? Because of course I'm not adding him to the certificate or his last name.

[Blicious19]

id say make annonimous tip i doesnt matter if its snitching its for ur daughters sake and his. and its ILLEGAL