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No support :(

3 mnths pregnant, & feeling lots of stress.
Working fast food at del taco (doesnt help with nausea lol) My bf & I both agreed we wanted the baby, yet im getting nothing but negative comments. Like how lazy ive become. & because i work graveyard shift i wake up late feeling my terrible morning sickness which he happena to think im making up to get out of going to work. No support from my family yet, & hes not makin it any better. I dnt want my anxiety to takeover my pregnancy some advice?? Greatly appreciate it. Thanks!! :)
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4933353 tn?1361995157
I was feeling the same way and i kinda jus became a lil obsessed with my baby lol. I look up all about how my baby is growing and whats going on in my pregnancy. My bf acts like an ******* alot of the time too and i feel really alone but i use that time to build a connection with my baby even as early in my pregnancy i am
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I Completely Agree With Meg....When Stress Starts To Come And Build You Try To Relax Even If Only For 10 Minutes. Take Walks And Have A Talk With Your Baby Nothings Wrong With Some Early Bonding. Read Up On Your Baby And You'll Surely Become More Connected. Eatin Salted Crackers Before Getting Out Of Bed Helps A lot Too. Drink Plenty Of Fluids To Keep You Hydrated. As For Your Boyfriend Maybe His Nervous Or A Little Scared And Tryin To Keep It Hidden. Give Him Some Informational Text On Babies,Becoming A Dad And On Your Pregnancy As Well That Should Help Him Understand Your Troubles More. Good Luck Love .
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Yeah, I would tell your boyfriend to suck it.
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4762847 tn?1360881934
Well for the sickness try Tums our talk to your doc about zofan. They both help a lot!. For the stress part, just go into your own zone lol set milestones to accomplish or look forward to like ultrasounds and other appointments look up different stages your babies at ect to keep your mind of things when people get to naggin....it helped me and I've learned allot about my baby girl in the process. As for your boyfriend... Guys suck sometimes... I think its a natural thing because they know the hormone war is about to start and they want the upper hand ! I had to have a big talk with my fiancé about the way he was treating me (actually about 4 talks) and finally he got the hint. Just show him how toy expect to be treated! Being pregnant is stressful enough let him know you don't need that crap.
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