Are they all like this?

[akuz27]

I'm so fed up. My husband is getting on my last nerve and has been for a few years now. He's not acknowledging I'm pregnant and if it were up to him he'd hide the child when it's born too. We have 4 dogs and he went to but dog food and complained we have to feed them. I told myself I would finally leave him once and for all at the end of the month but then found out I was pregnant. He even refused to come to my first prenatal appt and said it was my fault. Who does that?! I'm just upset is all and can't talk to anyone because he's such an angel in everyone else's eyes.

[AnnieBrooke]

Honey, it sounds like a profile of a marriage that is over.  8 years of this unpleasantness is enough.  Don't try to be friendly, just tell him that you give up, he is out, and if he doesn't want to be he has to be the one that fixes it because you won't be trying any more.  All it's doing is breaking your heart, because you're kidding yourself that something is there.

[2ndbaby77]

Wow he sounds like a real jerk!!!  8 years is a long time but forever is even longer you know?

[akuz27]

Thanks I made him leave the house. He even played the victim card as he left. Sad because tomorrow is our 8 year anniversary I'm giving him a baby and he gave me tears ={ He even got mad last night because I asked him to lay down next to me for a few minutes and his response was "what if I fall asleep next to you?!" Well that would be terrible now wouldn't it?!

[2ndbaby77]

I'm sorry mamma. If you're honestly unhappy don't let the baby be a reason to stay they are a reason to leave so you can be happy and that makes the pregnancy better. If mamma is stressed it's bad for the baby.