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no one to talk to
I'm sorry to be a bother but I feel alone and stupid at the moment I have no one to talk to so my bf asked if he could drive his cousin around I said yes because he agreed to give us money on the side we need it but I clearly said not past one they agreed well its now 2:30am but I call because where the hell is he after finally 5phone calls he answers he tells me his stupid cousin shuged half a bottle of liqure and that we won't be back first he said 4-5 am but then he tells 6-7 how is this my fault I clearly told them the rules my bf not drinking he said he can't waking up his cousin but he try in a couple hours that's his idk where ughh do I have a right to be mad??? He said if im not willing to compromise the time then he do sent know he hung up on me told me he deal with me later or take care of me later wtf if something happens I'm Alone at the house and his off who knows where
Im sorry your going through this. What an
a s s h o l e! I went through worse with my first baby daddy ,sperm donor i was 16 n pregnant and so gullible and just so in love idk why. He was a drug addict, older than me he was mentally abusive and he said I was to not ask questions about what hes up to and I listened. He would leave when I was sleeping and I wouldn't see him for days to even weeks and I would plan what I was gonna say but when he came home I would be so happy to see him and just not say anything. I look back now and just wanna grab myself shake myself. I finally left him before my son turned 1it was the best decision I ever made. I promised myself if I ever got with anyone they would respect me and treat me like a queen it took about 5 years when my son was 6 I met my husband and he is awesome he treats me so good im very blessed. I just hope you will one day take care of yourself and baby and choose better for you both. Its not easy I know but you soo deserve better than this crap.
a s s h o l e! I went through worse with my first baby daddy ,sperm donor i was 16 n pregnant and so gullible and just so in love idk why. He was a drug addict, older than me he was mentally abusive and he said I was to not ask questions about what hes up to and I listened. He would leave when I was sleeping and I wouldn't see him for days to even weeks and I would plan what I was gonna say but when he came home I would be so happy to see him and just not say anything. I look back now and just wanna grab myself shake myself. I finally left him before my son turned 1it was the best decision I ever made. I promised myself if I ever got with anyone they would respect me and treat me like a queen it took about 5 years when my son was 6 I met my husband and he is awesome he treats me so good im very blessed. I just hope you will one day take care of yourself and baby and choose better for you both. Its not easy I know but you soo deserve better than this crap.
Holy crap!!! What a major @$$h0le!!! I would so be gone until he grows up and becomes responsible!! You AND your precious little one deserve way better respect and love then that like wtf?? Big hugs sweetie, please love yourself and baby enough go find true happiness ;) I truly hope everything works out for you!!!!!
What the f*** ... my man wouldn't pull the **** on me. I'd punch him in the face and tell him to get out. If he can't see that what he's done is wrong then how is he going to be mature enough to raise a child. Once your baby is born that stuff can't still be happening. He needs to think about what he's done. Maybe take some time at your mother's to let him think about this.
Smh thats crazy so he expects yu to fight pregnant at that with sum crazy drug addict smh idk wats up with him his mind is crazy
He just came back all he said he stayed longer then expected that he drank so he didn't want to drive then he said at least I didn't come back at 1pm then demanded food as I'm making my sisters pancakes:/ I'm hurt want to cry holding Bk my tears I hate crying when I told him about the drug addict all he said I don't leave my knife here for nothing :'(
Just right now some guy knocked in the door almost came in asking for the previous people that us to live her asking for drugs of all kind and when I told him no he asked if I was interested in making money o.o scary
He better make it up to me I'll be fine with chocolate and cleaning the house for a day but I'll let him figure that out on his own
Sounds like a lie :-/ , just relax and let's hope after all this hours he has a good list of ways to kiss your a s s and make things better !
Yeah :) thank you all for the advice made me feel better wander when he decide to finally show up
Calm down hun dnt stress u n they baby out stay as calm as possible n get ur speech together for when he comes cuz i kno u gun have a mouthful to say to his a.s.s i kno how much ur mind must be racing now n with hormones ur emotions may be all over the plave from anger being hurt sad n confused at his selfish n insensitive behavior just try n think about ur baby n staying as calm as possible sorry for wat u goin thru
Your mothers sounds like a very good place to go sweetie and it will give him something to think about
You have all rights to be mad. And it does sound weird if my man did that he with a chick. not trying to say your boyfriend is just be careful always play it safe. And remember not to stress out i know how you feel my man goes with his sister and will be gone for five hours i worry like no other but its his sister cuz i seen her pick him up.
:/ I know sounds so bad and the second my son wakes up image get him ready leave to my moms house so when he get Bk it be to a very lonely house and ma try ignore his calls but I'm weak so imatry not to pick up
Sounds like hes lying he made up all this just so he can go out and have fun sounds to me like hes playing games. I dont play that ****! Id be so mad and tell him dont come home. Id ignore him give him silent treatment when im mad I go crazy then get very quiet it drives my husband crazy he cant take it when I dont speak to him. And if I were u I wouldn't trust him to be doing this again.
Sounds like a lie to me or something fishy sorry that's just my opinion but i know if my bf did that id say ******** **** it leave him there pick me up i'll get him something just don't sound right sorry hope everything works out
Oh and I thought about reporting stolen but that be mean then he get arrested but I was very tempted
I'm am mad now I'm crying its 7am now still no show won't answer the phone I think I just killed his battery for calling to much
Yea id be mad too he is acting like a jerk he probably wasnt mad at u but his cousin n u just got sum of the heat either way he better come home ready to kiss sum a.s.s lol n ur right he shouldnt leave u preggers alone n stranded n for such a long time at that 1to 7 is way too long n not to mention how ever long it was he first started to ride him around
Ugh. I'd be irate and probably crying! Well, if it were me? One chance and you blew it. Don't ask again because the answer will be no. I have anxiety disorder and something like that would trigger SO MANY panic attacks. I am so sorry. :( It was wrong of his cousin to do that and wrong of your boyfriend to LET him.
I would be mad. There should be no excuse for him to not come home when he said he was going to be home. If this was happening to me id probably report my car stolen lol I dont play those games!
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