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delivery room question
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Me and the father are not together in only 23 weeks along but when time comes for baby to join us in the world, if his father wants to be in the labor and delivery room when he's coming, since he's the father is it like his right to be in there? I'm asking because I'm not sure how I'll feel but what if I don't feel comfortable with him being there since we're not together and he's committed himself to someone else?
Me and the father are not together in only 23 weeks along but when time comes for baby to join us in the world, if his father wants to be in the labor and delivery room when he's coming, since he's the father is it like his right to be in there? I'm asking because I'm not sure how I'll feel but what if I don't feel comfortable with him being there since we're not together and he's committed himself to someone else?
I think if he wants to be there to see his child born let him, especially if he is going to be in the baby's life raising him. I never understood why people would deny a father the right to witness his baby be born, yes there are certain situations i feel that a dad shouldn't be there. Like if he is abusive or non supportive throughout the pregnancy or he doesnt plan in being in the child's life. But if a dad wants to step up and do what's right let him. Some people are very bitter and deny a father the right to see his baby be born out of selfishness just because he is with another woman. That's Ridiculous to me. The baby is only born once that is a special moment and if he loves his kid it would be sad for him never having the chance to see it come into this world. But that's just my opinion. Good luck i hope you guys figure it out.
I'm sorry I don't want this to be like a drama question I'm just not sure what's right and what's wrong in this situation
What if I decide for him to stay in there because he says he wants to, would that be wrong for me because of the girlfriend? I kind of feel like it's unfair to me but yet unfair to him if it's don't let him be a part of baby coming into the world
It kind of feels good to know I'm not alone as bad as that sounds :/ he doesn't ever check on me either. So who knows if he'll even be in baby's life when he's here even though he says he will
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