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furious at 37 weeks..

So I just found out of course on my own that my boyfriend cheated on me with his exxxx n she pregnantn it could be his. Idk what to do I been in this ****** up relationshipwith him for 8 years n I love him so much. But this isnt the first timd he cheated with her. When I deliver we will have two boys together. Our oldest is 3. I just don't wanna walk away. I'm so heart broken. On the plus side I'm thinned out n 4 cm n contractions every 7-9 mins..
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Thank you guys so much this really helps me.
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1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NASB

Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered,  does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

If you b don't love yourself you'll constantly be with someone who won't love you the way you need to be loved. You won't be able to change him so ask yourself if this is something you can live with. If not, focus on being a good mom and teaching your son how to be a gentlemen.
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8367118 tn?1442605420
Why stay with someone who knows that can walk all over you? You're giving him that privileged. Is that what you want your son to know how to treat a woman? Excuse me but girl you gotta reevaluate yourself, his s h i t and you should leave him cause he won't change. Don't be afraid to start over New with your boys. Put child support and dust yourself off the floor. There's many help out there. Good luck!
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My bad. I thought it said it was the first.  Sorry!
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Cheaters are ALWAYS cheaters momma
You can't change them. It's 100% your decision and 8 years is a very long time but is it worth your unhappiness? Nothing is! Especially if it ends up being his kid she's having then what?
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8364464 tn?1408312392
She said it wasn't the first
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Did anger send you into labor?
Stay as calm as possible.
Cheaters gotta go.
This is only the caught time. Are you really or sure this is the only time he's ever cheated?  How sure of that can you really be. Maybe its been going on for a while but pregnancy kinda outted him. I don't trust cheaters. Never have and never will. I'm sorry this is happening tho. :(
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