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just venting, teen moms comment

Hate when people try to tell you that your life is over or that you won't be able to take care of a baby just because we are young.. I hate when people tell me what I can't do.I'm about to be 19 in 2 1/2 months.. If I get pregnant then that's my business, my body, and my child... I feel like nobody has a right to tell me if I'm gonna be a good mother or not. Our lives isn't over it just starts a little early.. I support all the young teen moms out there taken care of their business, let's prove them wrong.
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I had my first son at 17 and im pregnant at 19 with number two. Im still with father and im better iff then mist people my age . I move oyt at 18 finished school early and am in college i would never think my son is a mistake. He save me in so many ways . I love him and i cant even imagine how life would be without him here. If anything having my son was the best choice of my life because he made me better (:
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Everyone that commented is so true we are all great people raising our little blessings, I hate when people is so negative.. You can't let people control your happiness.. I thought i was pregnant 2 times by different guys but the  very first time I was 17 turning 18 my mom was telling me that I'm not ready for a baby and that if I am pregnant I would be getting am abortion andthat literally killed me inside because I do not believe in abortion and I don't support it at all.. A couple.months ago my mom was saying the same thing but I've gotten to the point where I don't car because at the end of the day it's my life and I'm gomma do what i want with it.. I want to have a baby I'm gonna have a baby they are not gonna be the ones taking care of my baby but me and the father.. We should all just do what males us happy and forget about what people have to say because they are not providing for our children.. Congratsto all the new mommies that commented.. And thanks for sharing y'all stories that have motivated me even more.. We gotta stay strong ladies
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I'm 16 and had my son a month ago and life did change but wasn't over. God gave me my blessing a little earlier and gave me my son a little longer. If I can do it you can too. Also the main thing I hate is when people say my parents are raising my baby because NO they are not me and my bf bought everything with money we work for, and when I tell people that they always give ugly looks like yea right. I'm glad u made this post it because Evan though were young we know what we got our self's into and were ready for the responsibility. ☺☺
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I'm 19 and I'm pregnant with my first child a month after she's born ill be 20 and I'm still being talked down about , I graduated and attended college its not just a age thing some people are just ignorant and judgemental about anyone in any situation  when I found out I was pregnant my whole life changed instantly I no longer buy things for myself my child is first , no longer party . I see myself as someone's mom that's who I am. I love to prove people wrong soooo I say keep your head up no matter how young , old . Uneducated , educated you are or people say you will be prove them wrong and be the best mother you can be to your children
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Specialmom always leave great comments, everything youve said is so true,  some things are over, but not life in itself, things  change and there will,be struggles, i was pregnant at 16 had my first child at 17, he is  now turning 18 on thanksgiving on his way to college , no babies, no gangs, no smoking, no drinking, never failed, never been suspended, Never been arrested, no tattoos, no piercings lol im super proud of my son.....
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I'm currently watching a movie called the pregnancy project and I definitely recommend it for us teen mothers... I am 17 years old and I am graduating high school early.I have gotten scholarships and with the help of my boyfriend and family I will go to college. I am very happy with this little blessing. I really want to be someone son is proud of
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