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just venting, teen moms comment

Hate when people try to tell you that your life is over or that you won't be able to take care of a baby just because we are young.. I hate when people tell me what I can't do.I'm about to be 19 in 2 1/2 months.. If I get pregnant then that's my business, my body, and my child... I feel like nobody has a right to tell me if I'm gonna be a good mother or not. Our lives isn't over it just starts a little early.. I support all the young teen moms out there taken care of their business, let's prove them wrong.
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^^^^very true. It doesn't matter what age you are things change drastically. Like for example right now instead of watching something I want to watch at 7:30 in the morning my two year old is handing me the remote to watch Jake and the Neverland pirates lol :-)
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I've always hated when people say that "life is over". It's such a negative way too look at things. To me, it's not that my life is over, but I'm beginning a new life. I think that being a mom is the greatest blessing you can be given, and the most important job in the world, and I don't know how people can make it sound so awful. Sure, I'm only 19, but to me that means I was blessed a little early. It hurts a lot when I hear those negative comments, especially when I hear "Don't you know how that happens?" and "Haven't you heard of birth control?", because I was always told I'd never have a baby, so this pregnancy is nothing short of a miracle for me. Nobody wants to believe a young mom can do the right things, but I fully intend to prove every person who has doubted me wrong, and I know for a fact that one way or another, my son is going to have an amazing, happy life!
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With me I'm okay with that, I'm okay knowing things are gonna change because I'm willing to change my lifestyle for my baby. I'm not a normal teenager i don't go to parties every weekend i don't ho to club;s all I do is work and go home so Itthink me having a baby would make my life better the baby would give me a future to look forward to, right now I think my life is boring but when my baby is in my arms life will be so much better, i feel like the only thing I'm missing is my child.. I can't wait to be a mother
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With me I'm okay with that, I'm okay knowing things are gonna change because I'm willing to change my lifestyle for my baby. I'm not a normal teenager i don't go to parties every weekend i don't ho to club;s all I do is work and go home so Itthink me having a baby would make my life better the baby would give me a future to look forward to, right now I think my life is boring but when my baby is in my arms life will be so much better, i feel like the only thing I'm missing is my child.. I can't wait to be a mother
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Awe that is so sweet congratulations, yes I agree i hate when people is so negative and then they're like " you got your whole life ahead of you why don't you wait" like leave me alone worry about your life and I'll worry about mine.. I believe tomorrow isn't promised so if I'm going to do something it's going to happen
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I hate when people say your life is over too . So many people have had negative things to say but my daughter is truly a blessing. And I know life will be different . But I believe me and her father can manage this new life were about to enter together. I think it all depends on the person. I am very ambitious and have set high goals for myself. And I have every intention of meeting my goals . My life is far from over its just about to begin .
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