privacy

[neshalyn]

So i live with my boyfriend and his mom step dad and younger brother.  So it's extremely difficult to do laundry in a timely manner before it adds up considering I do mine and his laundry.  And his mom does hers his brothers and some of his step dad's then he does his own. I don't care to do laundry I just HATE folding it. Sometimes I don't get to do our laundry for over a week so it's a lot.  So I'll just leave it in the bin it'll be dirty in a couple days any ways . ANYWAY his brother decided to come in our room ; while we were gone , WITH OUT asking; and take a bin full of clothes.  Instead of doing what a Normal person would do with a basket of clean clothes and dump them on the bed he dumps it on the other bin and the floor (he's 18 yrs old!!) Then puts all of his clothes in front of the washer and dryer BUT DOESN'T DO ANY OF IT . So the basement (where our room is) is a mess.  And the other day he brought in the mail gave me SOME of mine then went into the kitchen opens the rest of mine to see what it is then brings it to me!! And lately just walks in our room unannounced and everything. I hate changing clothes in OUR room when he's home cause I have too rush in case he comes down stairs!  He's even came in on us having sex! When my boyfriend flat out told him leave so I can have sex with my girlfriend (long story but he had to be blunt about it) I don't know what his deal is lately but if he doesn't learn how to give me my privacy back it's gonna be hell cause I'll be damnd if it's gonna happen like this when the baby comes.!! #rant

[Paigelee5]

Everywhere it is illegal to open mail that is not addressed to you. Like, it's jail time. Because there could be confidential information in a letter..that's not okay. Call the cops. Scare the poop outta that boy.. and the next time he has a date or takes a girl home...follow him around. Because if it's okay for him to walk in on you having sex, it MUST be okay for you to do the same...right?! Lol!  

[Nisha_Rachel]

Even if it's family.  Even if they live in that house with you. Illegal.

[Nisha_Rachel]

I'm pretty sure this is true for every state but I know here in Illinois it is ILLEGAL to open mail that does not belong to you.

[MrsAmySanchez]

My husband, our 7 year old, 4 year old and I all live with 2 grandparents and my dad plus my baby on the way and it is tough and everyone gets under my skin especially since im pregnant and irritated, im the only one that cooks here and feel like I have ZERO privacy lol but you know over all I wouldn't change it, they are family and im sure theres things we do to get under their skin as well so just try your best while your there to look past certain things even if you don't think you should have to..you'll be glad you did later on

[mummainoz]

Maybe he's getting resentful in the lead up to the baby and is putting the pressure on for you guys to move. I would ignore the nonsense and set some firm boundaries with him.

[bubzbeauty29]

Then just talk to him face to face. Tell him to get a girl or a life lol

[neshalyn]

Everyone else gives it too us and he use to now he just don't care and does whatever he wants.  

[bubzbeauty29]

Maybe u should move out. I mean it's their house and u will never have privacy with a big family.