I don't think telling a lie like that way to go with this.
I could say I miscarried. I know everyone probably think I'm a horrible person and I am but I'm 18 I'm scared, I dont know what to do I don't want to tell him now :(
If you abort the baby, you will probably lose him, which you stated earlier you didn't want to do. If he loves this baby as much as you say, I highly doubt he will care if there may be another dad. There IS still a chance he IS the father. Do not chance killing a baby the can possibly belong to him. Tell him before the wedding. If anyone asks why it has been postponed just say you decided to wait until after the baby is born or something.
Thanks but I think it would be easier to get over this abortion than to get over him. My world does revolve around him people just don't understand. I just can't tell him before the wedding its already been postponed once it can't happen again or everyone will take us as a joke. Can someone just please please help me figure out how to do it after the wedding if I don't decide to get this abortion
If you do not want your kid even in the end of all this give it up for adoption. There are tons of families out there that cannot have kids and would love your child and provide the best for it. Please do not hurt that little innocent baby. As for your fiance the longer you wait to tell him the worse its going to be. for you and him. I know you love him but no world revolves around a man. not to sound rude what so ever but you really need to talk to a therapist or something. Its normal to feel depressed. I had a friend that even after her baby was born she wanted nothing to do with him, but she never did anything about it. He's now a healthy 3 year old and she loves him more than anything. Its normal to feel this way. Just PLEASE don't do anything to yourself our that baby. The baby already loves you unconditionally. Even IF and remember I said IF, he does leave you your a strong woman who can get through this life is tough and sh.t happens. You can't just give up on yourself. Think of how you would make your family feel if you committed suicide. They would be devestated and the guy who loves you would. Just please start thinking positive. Everyone on this site is here for you. But like I said maybe it would help talking to someone personally. I really hope things look up for you. And you should really sit down with your fiance and tell him BEFORE the wedding. Just have an adult conversation with him. Discuss your options. Besides abortion. I know its your decision but you're baby is a BABY now, not just a fetus. :/ good luck girlie.
Are you positive you ovulated on the 9th??? Ur ovulation could be off by a few days. My last period was feb 8th and my due date is nov 15th my conception date was the 22nd or supposed conception. My ovulation tracker though said i was supped to ovulate the 19th. So dont count on ur ovulation date.