help!!

[necia_626]

Im 22years old and im in my second trimester and my bbysdaddy has no job and hes currently using drugs wat should i do??

[Liz_zoey]

Agreed with all of the above. I had a similar situation when I was 12 weeks, and he didn't want to man up. I moved back in with my parents because I didn't have anywhere else to go. It *****, but if he won't take responsibility then you'll have to. I'm 21, almost 22, and have a healthy happy 3 month old daughter. Whenever I look at her I'm reminded why I'm going through and doing the things I'm doing. I hope things get better for you hun, good luck! Just remember, things will work out, one way or another.

[sprmom87]

Kick him to the curb and see what kind of assistance you can get til you are able to work and support you and baby.

[saffyel]

I think the above comments its wat you should do..dont waste your time for someone who is not worthy it...make sure you do wats best for you and da lil angel that yur carryng

[saffyel]

I think the above comments its wat you should do..dont waste your time for someone who is not worthy it...make sure you do wats best for you and da lil angel that yur carryng

[nycborn]

I agree with ashisaunt. .  It may be hard for u because u r emotional right now.  But its best to make a decision now before u regret it later on.

[ashisanut]

Give him an ultimatum, its either you and his kid or the drugs! make sure he knows he cant have both and that the scene he is in at the moment is not the world your bringing this baby into. If he would rather take drugs than enjoy this amazing experience with you then, as sad as it is, the baby and yourself are better off without him.