It might be because I'm old fashion or raised old fashion and also raised in church but you really shouldn't be living and having sexual relationships with each other if your not married. Sorry but that has to be said, now to your question, it may not be you it might just be him. If he loves you like how you say he does then him not sleeping in the same room or bed with you is actually the right thing to do and he is just trying to do right by you. And him not wanting to talk about is okay because I once knew a man who is now with the Lord who never complained or spoke his mind where it wasn't needed. He was a kind old man who died from stage 4 or 5 cancer. But when he was stage 2 he never said a word about it in fact he took a transmission out of a big van, that holds about 16 people, and he put it back in. He never complained about his pain even before his death. If you wanted him to say anything about it you had to pry it out of him. Point is there is people like your boyfriend. So don't worry about it.
Hi. I don't know how long you have been together but that can make a difference. Sometimes the longer you are with someone, the more used to them you become. I have gotten used to my husband. Ha. You should think so, right? But I too am a super light sleeper and value my sleep very much. I don't function well without it and do best with NINE hours (I know . . . pathetic that I need that much and rarely do I really get it). After years together, other things come into play like the comfort of my own bed, the familiar sounds, etc. It really helps me to have some kind of white noise in the room. I run a fan a lot of the time. A king bed also helps. But I remember early on . . . and in my sleep deprived little children years having a lot of trouble getting used to sleeping with another.
good luck dear
I want so much to sleep with my boyfriend. I love him and he loves me. We are so good together. It's just that, i sense his energy and I can't totally relax. Just him touching me wakes me up, though I hardly go into a REM sleep. He's understanding, but not fully. He wants to make love a lot, and though it relaxes me, it totally wakes me up. I always sleep in for at least two hours after he gets up.
LOL, I thought you meant some kind of test to see if he's gay! ha ha ha ha
Oh, M CAT is the test that one takes to get into medical school.
anyway, yes, break ups are hard. Stay busy and keep a journal. It will be better when he does actually go. Ya know, I don't care what anyone says------------ close friendships with x's rarely work. Reason being, one typically has some hidden feelings left over. I honestly would not be thrilled with my husband keeping in touch with an x on a regular basis. Luckily, my husband doesn't do facebook or any of those sites that cause so many problems and is so busy working that he has no spare time for such nonsense. But I really think it is a red flag that he talks to his ex every day.
You will find someone to have the kind of relationship you'd like. Don't settle until you find it. good luck
Yeah, pretty bummed today as we still haven't discussed when he's moving out. I just know that this situation makes me so unhappy because I'm a snuggler! It also messes with my mind thinking maybe he's got something going on the side, x-girlfriend as she still calls and texts him on a daily basis. It just doesn't feel right. Never fun going thru a breakup. Glad he had to work today! I'm not sure what test you are talking about though..??