So, ive been married for nearly 5 years and they Havnt all been that good, when i first met my wife it was the best thing that ever happened to me, she was the princess i had always dreamed of, a year or so after getting with her, i suffered a nervous breakdown from taking MDMA, and was in a big dark hole of depression and anxiety, she stood by my side all the way, i was in the army at this time, and i obviously was medically discharged, i went for months and months not showing her any attention and i probably made her feel like she wasnt important, no ive been out of the army a year and i finnally got a good job and have been working my hardest to show her im a change person, im not depressed and im getting on with my life again and envolving her in every aspect, about 6 months ago we moved house and things started to get really bad, she wont show any love any more and just isnt interested, in return im trying even harder now to get her love which i beleive is pushing her away even more, we just found out she is pregnant and its hit her like the worst news ever, she wants me one minute and not the baby the next she wants the baby and not me and then she wants both, how can i help her discover what she wants and be the man she wants me to be, im not rich so i cant shower her in gifts, i try to be supportive but it gets thrown back in my face, i agree to splitting up and moving out but she keeps coming back, is this the pregnancy or what im so confised and i dont know how to help her and keep us going strong!!!!!!!