Does he just want to be friends or likes me

[dano777]

Okay so I started talking to this guy online over a year ago. We talked but not that much. Anyways before I moved we started talking a bit more. Then I moved where he lives for school in september. He moved away for a month for school then moved back in october. He was how he was getting back with his ex. Well we hungout once a month ago and was really fun. We hungout all day and night and felll asleep on my bed. Well after that we talked but rarely. I saw him at the bar with his ex so thought to just leave him alone so I did. Then halloween weekend him and his ex were at the bar but separatly, then the weekend after that he was at the bar alone again. He never talks about her anymore either. He doesn't seem to hangout with her anymore. So last weekend he said that we should hangout again. So tuesday I texted him and he wanted to hangout. We hungout and it was fun. He would say things like, do you want to live here forever you might meet a cute and nice guy, twice. He said he wanted to hangout again and kept asking when I was coming back this weekend from somewhere and when I was going home for christmas (he could just be making conversation). He is really hard to read and does things to make me think he likes me and does things that makes me think he doesn't He never really texts me, just talks on msn. But yesterday he texted me and said have fun on my trip. Today he was on msn all day, I tried to say hi this morning but got nothing, so maybe he was just busy. Do you think he likes me?

[dano777]

I know now, I told him all he gets is a kiss from me and he said he was still seeing his ex :(.  I'm really upset and can't get over him.  I've blocked him off everything but I feel like I need to tell him how i feel so I can move on but I know thats a stupid idea.  I feel like he's playing me like a fiddle, he fights with his ex so he talks to me.  I feel like I need to tell him that I'm not going to be around anymore and stuff.

[specialmom]

Do you have an on switch I can hit?  I say that in all seriousness because you post over and over again as if you don't read any posts to you.  There is no acknowledgement of the advice you've been given.  I'm going to in all seriousness suggest that you find someone in your life that you trust to talk to about this.  Maybe a counselor would really help you.  

If your posts are real and this is really your life, I'd have to take things a step further and say you are obsessed with this.  Unhealthily so.  

[dano777]

Its like something changed on tuesday and he likes me.  I don't get why he would text me wednesday then.  

[Ashelen]

I think it's time to be single and focus on "you"...watching your posts over the weeks...months? I've come to the (albeit unprofessional) conclusion that you have some severe insecurity and obsessive issues. have you considered therapy? sorry to be blunt.

[jame1983]

hang out for a few months see what happens, this way you will get to really know him before you jump into a relationship

[specialmom]

No.  I don't believe he is interested at all.  I think you need to find a better way to spend your time. He's not asked you out.  He's not contacting you in really any real way.  He may only be being polite.  I'm speaking bluntly because I feel like you just will not listen to anyone on the subject.  

And what if I said yes he likes you.  What would you do.  Hang out on msn to see if he'll send you a hi message back?  This is not worth your time.