saying she's pregnant but i think she's lying

[wcc963]

I supposedly got this girl that i was with for a very short time pregnant back in January according to her. I'm 22 and she's 21. She said she didn't want it and had already scheduled an abortion for the following week. We were on good terms then and we were communicating through text during the week and the process of the abortion because I couldn't be in attendance. She told me how she was feeling like crap and bleeding out cause of the pills she was given. She then mentioned that she had the Nuvaring put in, which through my research they will not put in if the woman is pregnant so I don't know if she lied to me about all that.

some background on her, all of this comes from talking to her over the past 3 months or so. she is 21, has a 2yo son that she had from a marriage when she was 18. she was dating a guy at her work about a year ago but only for about a month according to her, but they continued to fool around for a long time after that. she got pregnant from him and had an abortion. but is still in contact with him and spends a lot of time with him. she says she has slept with 25 guys in her life

We had a fight the other day, i called her some colorful names and she all of a sudden brought it up saying she never got the abortion and is still pregnant and claims its mine. When I asked her to get a paternity test to prove that the child is mine she refused, and has continued to refuse. she would be 9 weeks along now. She is telling me she doesn’t want me in her life at all and barely answers my questions through text. I have talked to my mother and a few close friends who know her as well, they all think she's lying. I have save our most recent texting session, nothing before that though :/

if you need/want any extra info or clarity please let me know

[wcc963]

If she is pregnant and keeping it, I'll wait til the paternity test results are back. If not she's never goons hear from me again.

Yes I will post back after the meeting tonight.

[RockRose]

I hope you post back with how the meeting goes.

[specialmom]

Yes, after this though-------  please try to remove yourself from the drama.  If she is indeed pregnant, you aren't a couple.  You'll just wait until she gives birth and do what you've got to do.  And if she isn't pregnant, this is not worth so much of your energy.  Try to just make this your last effort and then wait.  good luck

[wcc963]

When she told me she was pregnant she said she told her mom. When she claims she was going through the abortion and cramped up and bleeding she said she went to her parents so her mom could take care of her. So unless everything she's told me is BBS her parents sound know. But either way I should get an answer our as you said get the ball rolling towards one. Should be an interesting night

[specialmom]

If she'd only be 9 weeks and the pregnancy would have been semi unwelcome, be prepared that her parents know nothing about it.  You'd get the ball rolling for answers, I guess.  good luck

[wcc963]

I think I'm going to go to her parents tonight after I get off work. I think will give me a definite answer