for gonorrhea you need to only wait 1 week. herpes is 4 months and sypgilis is 6 weeks.
thank You. Is getting tested 3 weeks later to soon to tell or is that ok?
you can also get gonorrhea, but as NA said it is a low risk but possible.
your risk is very low. Yes you could get herpese or syphilis but thats about the extent of it. And with either your sypmtoms are not saying much to point in that direction.
as far as him touching himself then you, again low risk.
feel free to test but your really dont have much risk
-NA