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I made a huge mistake and had sex with an escort. Unprotected oral, the rest she had a vaginal sleeve.
First few nights I had a dull pain in urethra, and woke up with some sweats. Not too bad after that. It is two months later, and I still have the dull sometimes sharp pain in penis or urethra that comes and goes, worse in evening. Warm bath helps for a bit.
In addition, wife has unusual vaginal bleeding between period the last 1-2 months, some abdominal and back pain. Now has severe naseau and hot flashes two months later, not sure if related.
I tested after two weeks for HSV, HIV, Gon, Chlam, RPR, and the usual suspects - all negative, though I know the test was early.
Children have had sore throats off and on, though I doubt it’s related but I’m worried sick. We use the same tub.
Any help appreciated...
First few nights I had a dull pain in urethra, and woke up with some sweats. Not too bad after that. It is two months later, and I still have the dull sometimes sharp pain in penis or urethra that comes and goes, worse in evening. Warm bath helps for a bit.
In addition, wife has unusual vaginal bleeding between period the last 1-2 months, some abdominal and back pain. Now has severe naseau and hot flashes two months later, not sure if related.
I tested after two weeks for HSV, HIV, Gon, Chlam, RPR, and the usual suspects - all negative, though I know the test was early.
Children have had sore throats off and on, though I doubt it’s related but I’m worried sick. We use the same tub.
Any help appreciated...
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I'm not entirely sure what a "vaginal sleeve" is - maybe a female condom?
In any case, after 2 months of symptoms, you need to see your doctor. When they did the testing, did they check your urine for red and white blood cells? You can get something called NGU - non-gonoccocal urethritis, meaning any infection not caused by gonorrhea - in your urethra caused by normal mouth bacteria.
Your wife could also have something going on that isn't related to this at all, and she should see her doctor. If you do have NGU, your wife needs to be treated.
Your kids' symptoms are not related to this unless you are having inappropriate contact with them. In many places, it's allergy season, so on and off symptoms like your kids have may be that, but by all means, take them to the doctor to make sure it's nothing else.
In any case, after 2 months of symptoms, you need to see your doctor. When they did the testing, did they check your urine for red and white blood cells? You can get something called NGU - non-gonoccocal urethritis, meaning any infection not caused by gonorrhea - in your urethra caused by normal mouth bacteria.
Your wife could also have something going on that isn't related to this at all, and she should see her doctor. If you do have NGU, your wife needs to be treated.
Your kids' symptoms are not related to this unless you are having inappropriate contact with them. In many places, it's allergy season, so on and off symptoms like your kids have may be that, but by all means, take them to the doctor to make sure it's nothing else.
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