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Blood in mucous 21 hours after oral
I apologize for bothering everyone, but I woke up this morning with a dry throat and blood in mucous about 21 hours after the situation described below over which I am ashamed and terrified.
I am in Japan and went to a pinsaro, which is essentially an oral sex bar. I am especially nervous because they do not usually let foreigners in (I do speak Japanese though) and I heard they usually wipe the penis with alcohol first, but I don't recall the woman doing that. She just used a wet cloth.
She performed uncovered oral sex on me and I licked her clitoris and vagina. I don't think I inserted my tongue inside. There was also a lot of very deep kissing. I do have bleeding gums sometimes. I am terrified and ashamed. I am most concerned about gonnorhea, syphilis, chlamydia and herpes. I had HSV1 when I was a kid so I am primarily worried about HSV2. In that regard she had no sores on her lips, but I did not see her tongue.
How long before symptoms are most likely if there were any gonnorhea, HSV2, chlamydia or syphilis? It has been about 21 hours so far and I have a sore, dry throat and had the bloody mucuos when I woke up. I am prone to sinus infections though and flew 12 hours on Monday.
I read the posts on HIV and oral sex carefully and want to verify that I correctly understood HIV is not a risk from receiving oral sex or giving cunnilingus even with bleeding gums?
Is testing advised under these circumstances and if so when? Despite my immense stupidity and shame I love my girlfriend very much and am terrified of giving her anything when I return to the US. I am so scared and confused and this is all my fault. I would be grateful for your answers. Thank you!
I am in Japan and went to a pinsaro, which is essentially an oral sex bar. I am especially nervous because they do not usually let foreigners in (I do speak Japanese though) and I heard they usually wipe the penis with alcohol first, but I don't recall the woman doing that. She just used a wet cloth.
She performed uncovered oral sex on me and I licked her clitoris and vagina. I don't think I inserted my tongue inside. There was also a lot of very deep kissing. I do have bleeding gums sometimes. I am terrified and ashamed. I am most concerned about gonnorhea, syphilis, chlamydia and herpes. I had HSV1 when I was a kid so I am primarily worried about HSV2. In that regard she had no sores on her lips, but I did not see her tongue.
How long before symptoms are most likely if there were any gonnorhea, HSV2, chlamydia or syphilis? It has been about 21 hours so far and I have a sore, dry throat and had the bloody mucuos when I woke up. I am prone to sinus infections though and flew 12 hours on Monday.
I read the posts on HIV and oral sex carefully and want to verify that I correctly understood HIV is not a risk from receiving oral sex or giving cunnilingus even with bleeding gums?
Is testing advised under these circumstances and if so when? Despite my immense stupidity and shame I love my girlfriend very much and am terrified of giving her anything when I return to the US. I am so scared and confused and this is all my fault. I would be grateful for your answers. Thank you!
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Hi, the actions you describe would be a risk for herpes, syphilis and Gono but oral is considered low risk but since you have a girlfriend test for these before being intimate with her.
Herpes----3 months
syhilis----6 weeks
Gono----7 days
Herpes----3 months
syhilis----6 weeks
Gono----7 days
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Thank you. I am scared because I am not sure I can deny my girlfriend sex for six weeks or three months without raising problems. I read a post from Dr. Hook that syphilis and herpes would be pretty unlikely unless there was a sore present on the woman's mouth. I guess I am trying to gauge how low risk oral is since there were no visible signs on the woman's lips?
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
