Strip Club Lap Dance Exposure - Really Scared (No Penetration)

[Superscared848383]

Having a lot of anxiety. Went to a strip club for the first time and got a private dance. Stripper was nude, had me touch her vagina (just on the outside), and she was also superficially touching herself.

She proceeded to unzip me, and touched my penis under my boxers a few times. I was nervous, so I was not hard at all.

She continued the dance, and at one point I noticed my flaccid penis was outside of my boxers because I felt her vagina on the side of it for one second. Immediately after feeling that (a tiny bit of cold fluid, could have been sweat), I pulled my boxers all the way up. There was no other contact with her vagina and my penis other than for that one second. There was no way I penetrated, as I was completely flaccid and would definitely have noticed.

I am extremely scared that I caught HIV or some other STD from this. What are my risks? Thank you.

[Dadz1990]

Hey,
Quick answer first and then I’ll give some background. There really is little to no risk of any STI here.
For sure nothing to worry about.

STI are not spread hand to genital.

You do have a theoretical risk of skin to skin STI syphilis, hsv, hpv. But this is very very low for all with such short contact.

I wouldn’t even test, but feel free if it helps your anxiety. I see no worries here.

[Superscared848383]

Thank you so much. So HIV would not be a concern in the slightest?

[Superscared848383]

Also, the risk of other STIs is not even worth testing absent of any weird symptoms? Sorry for the repeated question. Trying to get a grip on myself.

[auntiejessi]

HIV is not a concern at all.  It needs penetration to transmit.

Your penis touched her vagina for a second, literally. There is no risk here. Wouldn't worry at all.

[Dadz1990]

As above, HIV is not a concern at all, didn't even enter my head.

You have had a virtually zero risk event. Move on. I only mentioned testing because its a great anxiety reliever, but its really not necessary.

[Superscared848383]

Even if there was potential fluid that touched my penis? I'm assuming that since it was exposed to air, it would be negligible?

[Superscared848383]

Also, would dry skin make any bit of difference?

[auntiejessi]

Yes, even if actual fluid touched you and not "potential" fluid, and dry skin doesn't make a difference.

Seriously, if you needed to test, if there was any kind of risk, Dadz and I would tell you.

I don't know if guilt is involved here somehow, but guilt does not equal risk.