Hello,
Seven years ago at age 23, coming back drunk from night out, I got attacked and was given a "wedgie", and while wedgies have funny connotations for some people, this wasn't funny - in fact it changed my life ever since. I felt my nerve under my testicles in extreme pain, and basically felt like it snapped, though I was attacked while drunk so can't remember clearly.
The next day I woke up and didn't remember what happened right away (because I had been drunk), but I immediately noticed when in the bath that my penis was numb. I ran it under the cold water and I barely felt the effect. The feeling hadn't completely gone in my penis, but it was like 80+ % gone. Of course I found it difficult to get an erection, though I have to saw the feeling of numbness was horrible in its own right.
At the time, i saw several doctors about the problem, the first couple thought it was pschosomatic as far as I could tell. Then the next doctor sent me to a specialist across the country. When I went to see the specialist, he basically said "There is nothing you can do unless we cut you up, you'll just have to take Cialis". And then finally I pretty much gave up on trying to do anything about it.
So for the last seven years, I've hoped that the feeling would come back and it never did. The feeling is not completely gone, but there still is very little feeling there, like 20% of the original sensation. I'm not sure if it improved at all, at times I thought it had made improvement from when it initially happened, but I'm not sure.
I've had to depend on Cialis and Viagra, and I've never told my girlfriend on 4 years somehow. I've managed to get by by guessing the days she might want to have sex (ie rarely mondays or tuesdays and def not on period for example) and then the other days take an amount in proportion to the likeliness well have sex. If the likeliness is low, I'll take a low dose just as a kind of insurance policy (i.e with low amount will still get an Ok but not great erection). This might sound far fetched and maybe sad, but it has worked.
So that's my story. Is there anything at all I can do to get the sensitivity back? I hoped that the nerve would gradually heal itself but I don't know why not. I would love it if there was some type of massage that work.
I would love to even know exactly what is damaged. If a doctor could tell me, yes I see nerve impairment in that particular section of your dorsal nerve. And best of all, if a doctor could actually "cut me up" to see the nerve that is broken, and do something to fix it.
Thanks for listening, and any advice is very welcome and appreciated.