Cant Orgasm

[annamae802]

I am 23 years old and can not orgasm. I have had a lot of adverse experiences in my life and am not sure if all of them or one, or a combination is the cause of this. During my teenage years, I noticed that my one side of labia was really large and larger than the other. At the time, I was very self conscious of this, even though now I have spoken to doctors about it and they say that it is/was normal and that all girls have different size labias, although all are normal. At 16, I went to a gynecologist who said that he would do a labiaplasty on me. I went in for the surgery, and asked him to just trim "a little bit" off of the one side. To my horror, aftter the surgery I realized that he COMPLETELY cut off the one side of my labia all the way almost up the clit, leaving little space and also putting stiches close to the clit. He even cut some of the other side of the labia which I did not even ask him to do at all. I didn't know much at the time being only 17 years old. I lost ALOT of feeling in my clit and surrounding area following this. In addition, by 19 I was diagnosed with PCOS, I rarely get a period (a few per year) and have extremely high elevsated male hormones which cause me a lot of histruism. In addition, as a child (before the age of 5) I was sexually abused. I know this is all a lot to handle. But I am currently engaged and have been with my boyfriend for a year. I have never been able to orgasm myself or with a partner or him. Before my labiaplasty, maybe around 15 or 16, I would wake up having orgasms in my sleep but I did nnot masturbate at 15 or 16 so I am not sure if I was able to orgasm myself before then. Since the labia, not at all.
WHat do you think the root cause of me not being able to orgasm could be? Will I ever be able to? ):

[Dalubaba]

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[Dalubaba]

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[remar]

I'm so sorry your surgery did'nt turn out well. That Dr had no right to do more than what you asked him to do. I would recommend seeing a gynecologist to have some nerve testing done. With that Dr doing surgery so close to the clitoris it may have caused some nerve damage. Don't give up hope though.