anal and vaginal

[Randy310]

I had anal with my girlfreind for around a minute but prior to that i made her wipe it and when i removed my penis there was nothing on my penis, so i put it in her vagina for a little while what will this do if anything?

[fung]

To tell you the truth, at first I didnt look into your profile , I'm sorry if I didn't read your 'very much female' in your writing. I still stand  by most of my words before, but may be I should refer it to women with the same cultural background as me. SSam  was right, it's kind of culture shock for me since I learn about this and so was my friends when I told them .If I may explain,  for us who live with  east tradition, vagina is kind of sacred to a woman , while anal is for dirty purpose. So, it will be very humiliating for a nice girl to use anal while having sex.

To. SeriousSam
Once again i lift my hat to you for understanding my point. I dont mind teaching you my  language if you like ;-)

[SeriousSam]

You were kind of rude in the context that fung is from a different culture and is trying to wrap her mind around foreign concepts written in a language that is not her primary language, and is considered the most difficult on the planet.

If you take that in consideration I think you will find she was not trying to be rude but was rather more instilled with a sense of culture shock.

Personally while I do not agree with everything that fung says I find her to be one of the more charming, and refreshingly honest people on medhelp.  It almost makes me regret that hers is not one of the seven languages that I am trying to teach myself before my 50 th birthday (I still have at least a decade to go lol).

I thought, personally, that you were rather sarcastic.  A trait that I actually admire, but feel it is best directed at people whose languages or cultures better equip them to appreciate that skill.

Sincerely,
Sam

[JOYJOY123]

Not really sure what was rude about my comments. i was only stating facts. if you would have looked at my profile, you would have seen that i am female. That is all i am saying. we are all entitled to our opinions, and i was only giving you mine. the fact that you think anal is such a BAD thing is your OPINION. Like i said, not meaning to sound rude, but you are trying to tell everyone here how bad anal is and that if a man loves or cares for a woman he should never ask for it, even if she is willing, or even if SHE is the one who asks for it he should deprive her of that. that has absolutely nothing to do with the original post!! i cant help but get a little confused and upset by that. it is like you are saying that any man who does this with a woman does not love her. EVERY persons sexual preferences are different. if you do not like something, does not mean that others dont. if you are strictly going to respond to someones post i think is should stay on the topic at hand, not your personal views on the sexual acts they perform. too many people on this site cast judgement. if you dont like what someone does, please just dont respond to the post.

[Randy310]

thing is shes had no symptopms or complaint of any illnessses?

[fung]

Your comment is very rude , but I dont want to make it any further. I explained  enough on my last post.

[JOYJOY123]

I'm sorry to say, but i am NOT a man. i am very much female. been with my husband for almost 6 years, and i am a mother. i think being a mother does make me female right? the fact that all my reproductive organs are inside me means i am medically female right? anyways, this quote from your post "Finding what he likes and do it , fake it, anything to make him pleased. If you pleased, I pleased too. You are a man, you might never know what women think. It's the nature."....Sorry, to burst your bubble again, but i am female. that could not be farther from the truth in my case. i do enjoy anal. not on a daily basis of course, but i do experience the most INTENSE orgasms during anal. whether or not you want to believe it. you sound very close minded and that is a shame.