you should always, always, ALWAYS wipe yourself before moving from the anus to the vagina. even though you don't see anything on your penis, bacteria may still be there. if she does get an infection, she will have to go to the doc and get on some antibiotics/anitfungal (depending on the infection) and will be fine. still...make sure you clean YOURSELF before "switching holes" just to be safe.
FUNG- many many girls enjoy anal sex as there is a g-spot in the anus and they can achieve very intense orgasms that way. if they partner is caring and listens to her, the pain is very minimal. i am wondering where you got your information? if this is from personal experience or what?? i am just curious. it does not make the man selfish. the woman has to be a willing participant, so if she is willing and is enjoying it, how is he selfish??
I just read the other thread and find out -like you said- that there is anal orgasm?I dont believe it. I never once read the science-based explanation about that... or is there any? How to aroused if it hurt? You even need lots of lots of lubrication. . Anal cannot make you enjoy sex because there are no nerves for it. I watched some porn movies showed that when doing anal, the woman also touched her vagina , and may be that's how they get orgasm. . Based on psichological explanations, most women wish for long term relationship when they love her partner or comfortable with one . For some women-that means doing anything to make him stay. Sacrifise is part of women's insting . Finding what he likes and do it , fake it, anything to make him pleased. If you pleased, I pleased too. You are a man, you might never know what women think. It's the nature.
Just my opinion...
What I meant is, if you do love your partner, don't ask for anal. If she is offering you ,let her know that you would not do that because you dont like it either.
oooops sorry, I meant to send those 2 posts to you
But women can have an orgasm from anal sex, my girlfriend loves it. and believe me she is not doing it to please me. as for what you said about their being no nerve ending in the anus thats completely wrong, and why does lubrication have anything to do with having an orgasm. Trust me Fung, women can have an anal orgasm purely from just anal stimulation.
Hate to say this but there are thousand of sensitive nurves in and around the anus...