Hey,
I am a 28 year old virgin, never had the urge to have sex before now.
Me and my boyfriend tried to have penetrative sex 2 times now, but it hurts a lot. It feels like he is pushing against a wall or something and feels abit like I will rip.
We please each other in other ways and I have no problems getting wet or any other problems (I get my periods on time, and normally).
I tried to look with a mirror, and saw that my vagina opening, is not really an opening, there are like white pieces of flesh infront of the entrance without any hole.
Is this the hymen? Can it really cover the entire openings of the vagina? And is it normal that it hurts so much?
I was tensing up abit when he tried, because I started to feel it. He then tried with a finger. The first time it hurt, the second time it was better and didnt really hurt but he said it did feel really tight in there. Then he tried two fingers and only managed to go in a couple of cm's but it hurt too much. Wasnt nice at all.