It was a yeast infection I just got it checked today. Thank you :-)
Itching and irritation sounds like a yeast infection. You can try rubbing nerosporin down there its an antibiotic and a healer so its perfect. The toilet paper looking stuff is either smegma which everyone gets just wash it off or skin peeling from yeast infection.
Pleasure ball real name is 'clitoris.' Sounds like your skin is peeling, and that could be from what you are washing with, but I would guess instead that you're reacting to spermicide in condoms (if you use that kind) or the latex in condoms (if you use condoms) or that you have a yeast infection or an STD. Go see your ob-gyn and get swabbed and diagnosed. Good luck, honey. :)