Pleasure ball real name is 'clitoris.' Sounds like your skin is peeling, and that could be from what you are washing with, but I would guess instead that you're reacting to spermicide in condoms (if you use that kind) or the latex in condoms (if you use condoms) or that you have a yeast infection or an STD. Go see your ob-gyn and get swabbed and diagnosed. Good luck, honey. :)
Itching and irritation sounds like a yeast infection. You can try rubbing nerosporin down there its an antibiotic and a healer so its perfect. The toilet paper looking stuff is either smegma which everyone gets just wash it off or skin peeling from yeast infection.
It was a yeast infection I just got it checked today. Thank you :-)