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The Perfect Husband?!
ok i know we sorta touchd base on this in the "if it were legal.." thread but that was more of a yes or no type of response question. And in light of Vicuser's thread about the perfect wife, i thought we should do a "perfect husband" thread. What do you think the Perfect Husband should be like?
I dont believe in perfect anything, but i think the ideal husband should:
Let his wife know he loves her no matter what, stnad by her and RESPECT her always.
He wouldnt take her for granted and realize how hard she has worked- whether it be a job/carreer or at home with the kids. I dont think most men realize how much work and STRESS a woman endures "Just taking care of the kids and housework" . It can be very chaotic and stressful when you have little ones to care for i.e. anywhere from feeding, changing an infant all day, to playing referree to fighting children, to fixing broken toys, wiping tears and snotty noses, cleaning up spilled juice or elmers glue wiped o the walls, floor and ceiling, lol. Unclogging plugged toilets from a "lost" lego, or cleaning mud tracked in from little shoes. Screaming inconsolable kids, tantruming kids etc. Then cooking their meals, washing their clothes, picking up after them but most of all loving them. A typical day in a mom's life who is doing the primary child care can be very challenging (and rewading as well) and then you add in a thousand other mishaps (dog chewing up toys or having an accident on the floor) to the washing machine breaking etc. I just dont think a typical man REALIZES the things mothers do everyday for their children and aroudn the home. So I think the "perfect husband" would APPRECIATE all the things his wife does in this respect alone
and i cant finish this right now, I have to go feed my 3 yr old, now LOL
I dont believe in perfect anything, but i think the ideal husband should:
Let his wife know he loves her no matter what, stnad by her and RESPECT her always.
He wouldnt take her for granted and realize how hard she has worked- whether it be a job/carreer or at home with the kids. I dont think most men realize how much work and STRESS a woman endures "Just taking care of the kids and housework" . It can be very chaotic and stressful when you have little ones to care for i.e. anywhere from feeding, changing an infant all day, to playing referree to fighting children, to fixing broken toys, wiping tears and snotty noses, cleaning up spilled juice or elmers glue wiped o the walls, floor and ceiling, lol. Unclogging plugged toilets from a "lost" lego, or cleaning mud tracked in from little shoes. Screaming inconsolable kids, tantruming kids etc. Then cooking their meals, washing their clothes, picking up after them but most of all loving them. A typical day in a mom's life who is doing the primary child care can be very challenging (and rewading as well) and then you add in a thousand other mishaps (dog chewing up toys or having an accident on the floor) to the washing machine breaking etc. I just dont think a typical man REALIZES the things mothers do everyday for their children and aroudn the home. So I think the "perfect husband" would APPRECIATE all the things his wife does in this respect alone
and i cant finish this right now, I have to go feed my 3 yr old, now LOL
I'm sorry ladies but there is just not enough of me to go around. Next year I will have been married 50 years. It doesn't take much more than trying to be there for each other in every way every day. The perfect man would be much too boring as would be the perfect wife. There will be bad days and good days. The important thing is to let your partner know that you appreciate everything he/she does for you and that despite any arguments and mood swings, that you love him/her very much. It doesn't have to be wining and dining or flowers and candy every day. Just the words,"I love you," spoken honestly says more than all the gifts you can ever give. A kiss out of nowhere and when you are asked why just tell your partner that you felt like it.
LMAO.....I'm happy someone cares to keep me in the loop..Here I just found out that Lisa knew about it and she never even mentioned it to me.LOL Lisa...whats up with that????LOL
enemy: LOL! ...a thick one, lol
Kim: Yeah, that's how I roll, I like to let y'all know when I see an issue...lol
Kim: Yeah, that's how I roll, I like to let y'all know when I see an issue...lol
Yeah sara....I'm not kidding.I tried to pull it up and theres nothing there.I can't believe you didn't know....LOL
Jacqui...I'm glad you mentioned it too.I thought maybe it was just my computer.LOL
Jacqui...I'm glad you mentioned it too.I thought maybe it was just my computer.LOL
He has to be good looking.....like beautiful.
He has to have all his hair.
He has to shave every day.
He has to dress real nice.
He has to have a perfect body with muscles and a 6 pak belly.
He has to have a thick one.
He has to work and have a super great income if not born wealthy.
He has to have water sports including a yacht, boat and other toys for wife to enjoy.
He has to allow the wife to enjoy her career also.
He can't expect her to accept TV sports.
He would never want to go to bars or strip clubs.
He would always love taking the wife out to eat because she can't cook al the time, or her would do most of the cooking.
He would never leave clothing on the floor.
He would never leave the hairs on the sink.
He would bathe/shower twice a day and keep groomed throughout the day.
He would automatically clean/pick up or organize things around the house.
He would never assume that the clothes have to be laundered by the wife, and would start a wash without asking.....better yet, bring it to the launderer.
He would keep his and her vehicle immaculate.
He would insist that the wife drive a brand new expensive vehicle while he does too.
He would hire a gardnerer to keep up the yard and pitch in.
He would love to entertain without the wife being expected to do it all.
He would be a GREAT dancer.
He would love to take the wife dancing all the time.....almost every night.
He'd never wake the wife up for sex.
He would be a great dad and step dad.
He'd make sure we'd never go without.
He'd be in good health.
He'd smile.
He'd make wife laugh and feel good about herself.
He'd love her till the end.
He'd love...........love............love..........that woman unconditionally.
Is that too much to ask?
Sorry if I left anything out, but I'm kinda in a hurry!
He has to have all his hair.
He has to shave every day.
He has to dress real nice.
He has to have a perfect body with muscles and a 6 pak belly.
He has to have a thick one.
He has to work and have a super great income if not born wealthy.
He has to have water sports including a yacht, boat and other toys for wife to enjoy.
He has to allow the wife to enjoy her career also.
He can't expect her to accept TV sports.
He would never want to go to bars or strip clubs.
He would always love taking the wife out to eat because she can't cook al the time, or her would do most of the cooking.
He would never leave clothing on the floor.
He would never leave the hairs on the sink.
He would bathe/shower twice a day and keep groomed throughout the day.
He would automatically clean/pick up or organize things around the house.
He would never assume that the clothes have to be laundered by the wife, and would start a wash without asking.....better yet, bring it to the launderer.
He would keep his and her vehicle immaculate.
He would insist that the wife drive a brand new expensive vehicle while he does too.
He would hire a gardnerer to keep up the yard and pitch in.
He would love to entertain without the wife being expected to do it all.
He would be a GREAT dancer.
He would love to take the wife dancing all the time.....almost every night.
He'd never wake the wife up for sex.
He would be a great dad and step dad.
He'd make sure we'd never go without.
He'd be in good health.
He'd smile.
He'd make wife laugh and feel good about herself.
He'd love her till the end.
He'd love...........love............love..........that woman unconditionally.
Is that too much to ask?
Sorry if I left anything out, but I'm kinda in a hurry!
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