The Perfect Husband?!

[troubleinohio]

ok i know we sorta touchd base on this in the "if it were legal.." thread but that was more of a yes or no type of response question. And in light of Vicuser's thread about the perfect wife, i thought we should do a "perfect husband" thread.  What do you  think the Perfect Husband should be like?

I dont believe in perfect anything, but i think the ideal husband should:

Let his wife know he loves her no matter what, stnad by her and RESPECT her always.

He wouldnt take her for granted and realize how hard she has worked- whether it be a job/carreer or at home with the kids. I dont think most men realize how much work and STRESS a woman endures "Just taking care of the kids and housework" . It can be very chaotic and stressful when you have little ones to care for  i.e. anywhere from feeding, changing an infant all day, to playing referree to fighting children, to fixing broken toys, wiping tears and snotty noses, cleaning up spilled juice or elmers glue wiped o the walls, floor and ceiling, lol.  Unclogging plugged toilets from a "lost" lego, or cleaning mud tracked in from little shoes. Screaming inconsolable kids, tantruming kids etc. Then cooking their meals, washing their clothes, picking up after them but most of all loving them. A typical day in a mom's life who is doing the primary child care can be very challenging (and rewading as well) and then you add in a thousand other mishaps (dog chewing up toys or having an accident on the floor) to the washing machine breaking  etc.  I just dont think a typical man REALIZES the things mothers do everyday for their children and aroudn the home. So I think the "perfect husband" would APPRECIATE all the things his wife does in this respect alone

and i cant finish this right now, I have to go feed my 3 yr old, now  LOL  

[dominosarah]

Ya i do but he lacks in the compliment dept!!!!!  Gee wonder why!!!!!

Ummmmm i am just the cheap girlfriend!!!!!!!   LOL

[kim715]

Sorry ladies no brothers....Keep in mind it took me nearly 10 years to train him.LOL  

Sara...Don't be so greedy,you have your own great guy.LOL Do you think it's the name???   Nah,it's probably that they have such perfect wives.LOL

[dominosarah]

Piece of cake son!!!!  LMAO

[Jacqui805]

Damn ladies, y'all 'll have to fight me for him too!  

[dominosarah]

does he have any brothers??!!!!!  LOL

[kim715]

VicUser your wife is a very lucky lady.My husband is very much like you.He doesn't always get around to fixing things around the house as fast as he would like too,but he works 2 full time jobs now,since I had to quit mine to stay at home and raise my step daughters children.I have tried to become a 'Mrs.fix-it" to try and alleviate some of that burden from him.
I think what makes my husband so wonderful is that he always lets me know how much he appreciates me.He says things like I could never do what you have to do in a day and I'm so lucky to have you.He's always right there by my side when things are rough and when I feel as though I can't handle it anymore he lets me take a back seat for a while and takes the lead.On a crazy day when the kids are cranky and running wild and I haven't even run a brush through my hair yet,and I'm still in my baggy sweat clothes covered in whatever the kids had for breakfast and lunch he'll still walk in the door and look straight into my eyes and say something like you're so pretty.He's my best friend.