The Perfect Husband?!

[troubleinohio]

ok i know we sorta touchd base on this in the "if it were legal.." thread but that was more of a yes or no type of response question. And in light of Vicuser's thread about the perfect wife, i thought we should do a "perfect husband" thread.  What do you  think the Perfect Husband should be like?

I dont believe in perfect anything, but i think the ideal husband should:

Let his wife know he loves her no matter what, stnad by her and RESPECT her always.

He wouldnt take her for granted and realize how hard she has worked- whether it be a job/carreer or at home with the kids. I dont think most men realize how much work and STRESS a woman endures "Just taking care of the kids and housework" . It can be very chaotic and stressful when you have little ones to care for  i.e. anywhere from feeding, changing an infant all day, to playing referree to fighting children, to fixing broken toys, wiping tears and snotty noses, cleaning up spilled juice or elmers glue wiped o the walls, floor and ceiling, lol.  Unclogging plugged toilets from a "lost" lego, or cleaning mud tracked in from little shoes. Screaming inconsolable kids, tantruming kids etc. Then cooking their meals, washing their clothes, picking up after them but most of all loving them. A typical day in a mom's life who is doing the primary child care can be very challenging (and rewading as well) and then you add in a thousand other mishaps (dog chewing up toys or having an accident on the floor) to the washing machine breaking  etc.  I just dont think a typical man REALIZES the things mothers do everyday for their children and aroudn the home. So I think the "perfect husband" would APPRECIATE all the things his wife does in this respect alone

and i cant finish this right now, I have to go feed my 3 yr old, now  LOL  

[VicUser]

Magi, sorry I am taken, lol.
I try, somedays I am a better hubby that other days. I do love to spoil my wife, I am not sure I could find anyone else to put up with me for 28 years.

[flmagi]

VicUser, Will you marry me?
Are you really this way or are you just describing some fantasy husband?

[VicUser]

The perfect husband would….

Work hard and as many hours as it takes to provide for his family

Love his wife with all his heart and be grateful that she picked him

Appreciate it when his wife tries to look and smell good, even if she has had a bad day and her perfume is mixed with ode of baby puke.

After getting a welcome home hug and kiss takes the kids and enjoys them knowing soon they will be grown and gone.

Helps with supper and/or tidies up so they have time together later in the evening.

Regularly tells his wife how pretty she is and how lucky he is to have her as his wife, and mean it.

When his buddies are ragging on their wives, he only says the good things about his, and mean it.

Spend time learning how to touch, caress and pleasure his wife without always expecting sexual gratification in return.

Plan dates and bring her home modest surprises frequently

Make sure the house is in as good of repair as possible

Help with housework without being asked, and learn from his mistakes when he does it wrong.

[recoveringfromdetox]

I'am A man and I  think the perfect man would always be by her side no matter what.Be her sole mate for life, best friend. To always listen to what she has yto say . Bring home flowers and Chocolate candy and just say I love you and thank you for all you do! To share all the house work, cleaning floors bathroom ect.ect.