If there is true love between two people, no problem is too big to overcome. Especially if you get God involved, too. I will pray for you both. He has helped me out greatly in my lifeand even believe He led me to this site, as crazy as that sounds. Before I came here, I was on an endless downward spiral, and now I feel hopeful.
Yes it is a wonderful place!!!
Wow! I just found this website because I was researching heroin, I don't know very much about it except how addictive it is! but I'm amazed at all the responses already, this is very helpful and lets me know how many great people are out in the world!
You are in a rough spot, but if you truly love him, do not give up on him. There is hope and especially if he is willing to go to rehab. That speaks volumes for how serious he is about this. Best of luck to you both.
thanks I know, I actually just found all this out today so I'm still processing! I plan on having a long talk if I ever make it through this endless day of work!
I just don't want to deal with this **** for the rest of my life that is for sure!
No question is a stupid question. Only you can answer this question. You are lucky though that he told you the truth (or maybe just part of it). He admitted using and that is a reach out for help. I will be thinking thinking about the 2 of you.
Lots of Love,
Vicki
That's a tough situation there random. I mean, I know you love this man, but I'm not so sure I'd be takin' that walk down the aisle without resolving what can be resolved first. You have no idea how much he's using and these things only tend to get worse. Then there's you, your life will be greatly impacted, negatively, if you take the plunge with a man who's not ready to give this stuff up, not to mention a possible kid somewhere down the line. I think a majorly serious talk is in order here, with your expectations, and his reply.