Me too, sending you prayers for both you and your son : )
Will prayer for you and your son
Bama you are so wonderful. I gave that same ultimatum to my father when I turned 18. Unfortunately it did not end up well for us. My father passed away 3 years ago still refusing to see me...because in his eyes it was my fault that he was still a violent alcholic. Know one thing though...I don't nor did I ever hate my dad. I just knew I couldn't live that way anymore.
You are an awesome parent!!!!!
I meant if what you read you may have taken the wrong way or it hurt you feel free to PM the person and get it worked out. This forum works because we ARE family. Families don't always agree, sometimes they argue but in the end we all love each other and want nothing but the best for the person they are chatting with.
So awesome you went to a meeting...what a great first step. I want you to understand...I don't think you want to blame anyone...but we perceived your words differently than you intended I think. I'm not judging you nor is anyone else in this forum. We all want the same things....for you to take your life back and for you to not lose your son. Just remember we are all on the same side here.
Please keep posting....we want to help you...and if someone says something and you take it the right way PM that person and work it out. Okay? We all want you to succeed!
God bless you and your son!!
Hi Hon, it's great that you went to a meeting tonight. Keep going. I'm not clear about your current status. Are you still using? If so, have you come up with a plan to quit? When do you have to take the follicle test?
We are trying to see your side of this, but it still seems like you are concerned what other people, like your ex husband, are doing. Sometimes life just isn't fair, and the only thing you should worry about is yourself. You can't control anyone else, or what anyone else thinks. Stay focussed on you and your recovery, and let everything and everyone take care of themselves.
I hope you enjoy your visit with your son tomorrow. Working is good, and you do need to stick with it. I have faith in you, and you can do this. Just stay focussed on your goal. Take care.