Hops-I'm on board with the sub.......Please let me know how you are feeling.....in a pm so we don't offend. J/K.....
All-no but seriously. THis place has evolved into a different vibe from when I first started in February....although I have evolved too so maybe my perception has changed also. Back when I started I was a cheerleader for everyone on here trying to get clean and I was passionate about it. Now I'm in a relapse trying anything to get and stay clean.....like "real" NA meetings (whatever that means) and SUb, and this forum, and meditation, and therapy...etc.... I'm all about the positive support. Relapse is reality....not everyone's, but alot of people's. Addiction is most certainly out reality. I guess unhappiness is alot of people's reality too, which is why some people like to spread it....goes back to misery likes company. I've never been a mean druggie. I don't think anyways....so even in my dark hole I'm in, I'm going to jump on the wagon of the happy let's try to keep this forum of addiction a positive place that Firefaery posted here.... negativity doesn't help people want to get cclean.. period.
i think of you often..i agree with you..when i first got on here back in jan-feb there was a different "vibe" but WE can get it back!!! there are many here that are great...lets BAND TOGETHER guys/girls and get it back...
now on to the next episode of as the withdrawals turmoils LOL
Agreed! Lets get this place back to where all are happy rather than feeling dis-heartened!!
Long thread....and we have had this discussion before...i think cathy and jacquii, toxic and avisg....I feel that if I do not have anything positive to add then I should ignore the post and refrain from posting....if someone is asking for advice, then I can always give my opinion and it is always good to state "I" did this or that...or "If I did this or that" and to state that everyone is different...we all know that one way does not work for all....and everyone has a different situation/circumstance and personality...I had not noticed anyone being out of line but I am not on here all the time...I do think it is good to have a mix....some that say "It is ok, keep trying " and some that tell it straight up....i appreciate straight up...but I do know that many do not...again...everyone is different