Hi, ang,
We can't send you to any specific websites, but this is actually a pretty good one right here :-)
Aside from the Health pages and other resources here, your fiance can get an idea of the experience by reading these posts, especially in this recent thread:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Addiction-Substance-Abuse/lets-talk-about-triggers-to-use/show/1216601
Thanks. Yea I do c a couselor. Didn't think bout u tube I'll have to check it out thank u so much.
Do you see a substance abuse counselor? If so, you may want to let your counselor know ahead of time and then bring him along to one of your sessions. I brought my hubby to one with me and it helped us both immensely. Now he comes to one about once a month with me! You might also check out YouTube. They have some videos about substance abuse and there are some with professionals speaking about the disease. I dont have the exact link, they are ones i just came across but you could take a look, im sure you could find some! Best of luck and congrats on your engagement!
Luv, Jacky