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CoNgRaTs Xcalibure ON 30 HARD FOUGHT, BEAUTIFUL DAYS FREE!!!

Today our very own Xcalibure has 30 HUGE days!! He is one of the strongest, bravest, bestest people I know !! He is a HUGE means of support to MANY people on here even when his days are bad he ALWAYS offers an uplifting word to ANYONE in need. He is also the most BESTEST, KINDEST, FRIENDLIEST, LOYAL(EST?) person, friend, and father I know...He is smart and his laughter even through the text he writes is the most contagious ever!!
Though Rosyouralright cant be here... PLEASE join HER and I in CONGRATULATING Michael, AKA Xcalibure in celebrating 30HUGE AMAZING GREAT BEAUTIFUL DAYS :) AND MAYE THERE BE MANY MANY MORE TO COME!!
"I know people who feel like they've wasted years of their lives because of poor choices. they spent years  in a relationship that was toxic, years with an addiction, years at a job where they weren't fulfilled. BUT you have to realize, nothing you have been through is ever wasted. Your past experiences, good and bad have deposited something on the inside of you. Those challenges have sharpened you to who you are today." S. Wimberly

M,
You are amazing! I am so proud of you! You KNOW how much you mean to me! You ARE and ALWAYS will be my R.O.D! You are rockin your clean time and you are one of the very few people who continually impress me! We met for a reason, had our season, and will be friends for a lifetime! As you are my ROD I am also yours! Their are NO words to describe how truly wonderful you are! You take sobriety seriously and work on yourself daily! YOU ARE MY HERO!!
go raibh maith agat as a bheith agat! grá i gcónaí agus go deo!
PS If you ever doubt yourself remember what would Tim McGraw do?
              B.

Michael,
I need you to know when we first met, I felt blessed to know you, as we became closer I realized that i had a REAL friend...Who loved me no matter what. Then shortly after I realized I had a best friend...and knowing that made me happy :) Our late night talks and laughs got me through some of the darkest times ever. You will never know what that means, From then on you became one of my 2 2AM friends...
The other night when I couldn't sleep and the pain was unbearable, i was climbing the walls,  I realized  then I had  a 4AM friend...I didnt know those existed till you and B helped me MORE than you both know!!! BUT after today I know you are a  CLOSE STRONG REAL BEST 2 and 4AM FRIEND that NO matter what wont judge or disappear on me...who is patient and kind...
Michael I am soo proud of you for being 30days STRONG, 30 days FREE, 30 days SOBER!!! This is a HUGE monumental day!! And I am glad I can celebrate it with you :) "Strength doesn't come from what you can do. it comes from OVERCOMING the things you couldn't do."

“I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.”
― Douglas Adams,
I TRULY believe that and i also believe we “Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.”
― John Lennon Michael you are one of the ONLY 3 people that can make me laugh so hard i cry...and Laugh so hard water comes out my nose :)
Michael I am not the best writer so sometime I have to find quotes to express how I feel

Michael just  know "If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.  If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder.  If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow.  If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile.  But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me".  ~Author Unknown

and also I have learned-
Things are never quite as scary when you have a best friend.  ~Bill Watterson

As a friend you have taught me
A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad.  ~Arnold H. Glasgow

This one I believe is sooo true
Yesterday brought the beginning, tomorrow brings the end, and somewhere in the middle we became the best of friends.  ~Author Unknown

When i forget you remind me how special I am thanks for that-
"A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails".  ~Donna Roberts

and I believe
"Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things."  ~Author Unknown
Those little things make our friendship HUGE!!
"Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you.  They are not perfect but are always perfect for you."  ~Author Unknown
I believe we met for a reason, Michael :)

Please know no matter how bad or good, ugly or beautiful life gets I am ALWAYS here for you...FOREVER!!
I love you like the BESTEST friend you are!!!
CONGRATS again on your 30!!!
LOVE ALWAYS,
Heather

Ps
Michael?
...Just wanted to be sure of you...

Michael they say we cant make old friends, but there is something about you and B, i feel like in this short time we have become OLD friends...
the song You Cant Make Old Friends is so new the lyrics aren't out so you will have to listen... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjUji3tJ2p0

So i will post these lyrics
"My Best Friend"  by Weezer
When everything is wrong I'll come talk to you
You make things alright when I'm feeling blue

You are such a blessing and I wont be messing
with the one thing that brings light to all my darkness

You're my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do

There is no other one who can take your place
I feel happy inside when I see your face
I hope you believe me
'Cause I speak sincerely
and I mean it when I tell you that I need you

You're my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do

I'm here right beside you
I will never leave you
and I feel the pain you feel when you start crying

You're my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do

You're my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do
Yes I do...
Yes I do
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1226735 tn?1379103293
Damn, who knew there was so many nice things that could be said about me...lol

31 days ago I was a junkie who only looked forward to time passing on a clock until my next fix.  No vision of tomorrow, no real life, no semblance of an existence.  To see myself here and now is something of a miracle.  To say 30 days sober associated with me lets me know that there is a higher power responsible.  

A lot has changed in these 30 days.  I feel good, truly good, not that fake feeling of well being from the pills.  I feel like I've woken up from a long dream state.  I feel like me, not some shell of a person pretending to be me.  

I have so many here to thank for it all, who listened, reached out, lifted me up when I wanted to give up and lye down.  People who offered encouragement  and praise who made me want to keep going.  H and B you already know  what it is and what you each mean to me.

For EvolverU, VIC, Digger, dominosarah, spider, ricat, starshine, bubbleguppie, toothfairie, ariley, CKN30, happydays2come, wantareallife, and so many more I'm sure I'm forgetting, thank you, sincerely, I'm blessed to have found a place with such amazing people.  
  
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Congrats Michael!!! Love yah
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5347058 tn?1381188426
Congratulations! 30 days is a big deal. Keep pushing forward, fighting, and never ever look back! Here's to many more months clean, and happy!
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Happy 30 days west coast time now :D
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4341997 tn?1514588688
Yayyy Michael!!  Way to go on 30 days!! So proud of you!!  Congrats from sunny FL!!  Btw it's high 70's here so enjoy your heat wave out there weatherman!!  Hahaha.  You're doing great my friend!!  Keep rockin that clean time!  Xoxo

Lisa
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4202953 tn?1377183506
Huge congrats on your big 30 days! What a great day!! I'm so happy for you!
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4810126 tn?1503942735
Well Done, my friend!! 30 day WooHoo!..Keep knockin' 'em down! ;-)
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4522800 tn?1470325834
Congratulations to YOU!!! I want to see some more writing in your Journal..Like the Fairytale one...lol
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4113881 tn?1415850276
Congrats on the 30 days!
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"To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest." --Pema Chödrön
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Congrats on your 30 days my friend, way to go!!!
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6109773 tn?1381071043
Aww congrats on your 30 amazing days xcalibure!!!
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495284 tn?1333894042
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Congrats on 30 days!!  Hold that clean time sacred, your life depends on it~
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5986700 tn?1380791380
Much moocho uber grande huge tons CONGRATS!!  
If anyone can own it, it's you.   Good for you man.
bless
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1827057 tn?1397520277
Great Job X !!!!    keep it up my friend ;))))  
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HipHop HAPPY 30!!! Work is BSC and I cant text right now but KNOW I am PROUD
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6064084 tn?1421357084
Congrats on your 31 days and many many many more to come...lizzy
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Congrats on 30 days!!! May you have many many more...one day at a time.
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Well man want to join in the party in saying congrats...and hoping many more.
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1742220 tn?1331356727
Congratulations!  30 is such a huge super big deal!  great job!!!!!!!
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Sorry I missed your party here but you KNOW without doubt how proud I am of you!! Keep on rockin it bay bay!
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Hey congrats on 30 days clean it is the first mile stone it is also the time to work on your recovery time for a N/A meeting aftercare is imporant to staying clean life on lifes terms without mothers little helper you can do this but  it does take work. good luck and God bless......Gnarly
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