I also think you should not leave the house. I am not up on American law but if you are married he just can't kick you out on the streets. And if worse comes to worse and you need a lawyer for something the one benefit of being on disability is you can use legal aid and he can't. So you maybe that will hit him where it hurts. And if he wants a divorce so badly he will most likely end up paying you alimony because I am sure with you being on disability he must make more money then you do, so he will owe you something. I am sure you would rather have him at your side helping you through this difficult time. But sometimes unfortunately men usually aren't strong enough to handle the stress of helping someone in need (I am not saying that all men are like that, I got lucky with mine we were only together one month before i got sick and almost died, 4 years later he is still here even though i am very sick) This kind of treatment of people makes me so mad. I am just fuming at your husband. I would love to have a little chat with this person that calls himself a man and your husband because he is sucking at both right now. Quit the pain meds first then the xanax, it will make the withdrawals from the pain meds easier, and remember when getting off xanax taper and taper very slowly we don't want you having any seizures. I really think you should call legal aid and find out what your options are, check to see if he can legally kick you out and stuff like that. It will benefit you so much to get informed. I know it all must be overwhelming but hang in there and there is such a good group of people on this site that will be here to help you in anyway they can. So take a deep breath let it out slowly and trying to think calming thoughts.
yea i agree he cant throw u out and i hate to say it but the law def favors women so u mine as well use it this guy seems very capable and rite now u are not u will b eventually but u need the house more rite now so id call the police now get a report on him like has he threatened u or anythng u can get a report than get a restraing order that will not allow him in the house thats one option or u can hav police come just say hey im afarid of what my husband will do if ur truly are afarid than get a report document it. i dont recommend lying but if u thnk it could get to that point get a report
Possession is nine tenths of the law. Stay in Your house! Don't give up....get angry!!!!! You're going thru to much to let him walk over you like that. You must be a strong person, to have gotten off all those drugs, so bring that strength back. You can do this. If he is not there, get a restraining order on him. Now is the time to call on friends and family for strength too. Do not give up!
Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond to me. i havent talked or seen anybody for days and i just feel scared and depressed. Im so alone and i have started taking Xanax again and i have stopped taking my heart and blood pressure medicine. I keep hoping I just won't wake up. He had been going behind my back while we was together and opening his own bank accounts and who knows what else he has done. I worked so hard to get off the drugs but now all that pain and suffering i went through just got me deserted and all alone. But again thanks for caring and taking the time to leave me a comment avisg.It's more than anybody else has done and it really means the world to me.
Why is it that you have to leave the house? He is already gone I guess I would tell him if he is not happy he should remain gone you are married so he cant toss you on the streets.No problems are worth ending your life over. I truly hope that not what you are considering if so plz get some help you have people that need you .We are here to help.